is my situation hopeless?

Question:

hi,im 28 i have mental health issues which im presentley dealing with with the aid of a social worker, ive been refered for psychotherapy. but im living in a flat( apartment) with alot of youths who live locally. that hang around in gangs and they act very antisocially and aggressive and i feel threatened by them because they virtually live in my back pocket. i feel scared by them and they make the environment very provocating and threatening. and with me having problems with anxiety and controling my anger its making life even tougher to deal with. the youths shout and 'growl' obscenities. they act like they own the place and the area. they blast music r n b out at full volume all the time all times of night. im trying to hang in there and find somewhere else to live.. but i really dont need this when i have my own issues to deal with. : (

Answers:
Call the police. No one needs that garbage.

Other Answers:
Yes

always a way

Honey, if you know God there is never anyone without hope. I will pray for you.

No Keep Going Strong And God Bless

There is always a solution. It will come.

Plain and simply, you will not get over your issues until you are in a better environment. You cannot and should not under any reason try to reason with the hoodlums in your area. I suggest you move ASAP.

get a machine gun, (my uncle sales them.lol) and blow them away!

i agree with abras there is always a way

you should go ballistic, or join th marine corps. your choice

try to find somewhere else to move where you will feel more comfortable. Good luck

focus on that light at the end of the tunnel--you WILL get outa that flat soon, you WILL!--and then make calls starting TOMORROW to find a new place that will be a step up for u to live in. hold up your hope, baby, you can do it, and make sure 2 tell ur counselor/dr about your living situation so they can give u specific strategies 2 deal wit these jerks until u can move out. you can do it, you really can. believe in yourself and hold strong!

just hang on call the cops if u need to but dont give up we are all here for u

Wow, for someone in your situation you seem like a very intelligent and grounded individual. Perhaps the best thing to do is to talk to your social worker about your situation and how it is making you feel. Ask for other options on where you you can live and work together to come up with a possible solution. :)
good luck

You need to remove yourself from the shitehouse situation you find yourself in!

suck it up and deal with it

Sounds like you should work at finding a better flat. Maybe your social worker can help you find something better.

I suggest moving out, and if you don't have the money to just yet, work until you can!! No one should have to deal with what you're dealing with!

Sailor Star Fighter, out!

All you need to think about is that these are just kids, why do you care what they say? If you get scared just phone the police to move them, they'll soon get sick of being moved.

Think about what makes you happy and focus on that. Take Care.and get a new flat :-p

as long as you are alive and kicking you are not hopeless. your feelings will change with courage and cofidence. you are no less than anyone.

sometimes its wiser not to encounter the situation and walk away.
sometimes you should take it on your stride and face it.
have the serenity to know the difference and act.
you have all the help in the world.
have hopes and face it.
Good luck.

you just need to do what ever you can to get out of there and get some peace and quiet. i used to live in a really bad neighborhood and whenever i got he chance i would go have lunch and spend sometime in a beutifull nature park, the trees and fresh air would really calm my nerves. i am glad to hear you are getting help for your condition, my brother is manic depressive and i beg him all the time to at least take his medicine, but he doesn't believe he needs help. its nothing to be ashamed of, we all could use help once in a while

your situation is not hopeless, if you talk to your social worker and tell she or he you need a new place to live they will be happy to help you. stupid kids! they make to much noise

Did you ever think of moving to the midwest, It is a slower pace here in the heart land, if you need employment , watch the local situation. SE Iowa is kinda bad at the moment, but some companies likeTyson, and Farmland are hiring and paying decent wages .

Just a idea, just sounds like you need a slower paced life style.

i think once you find another place to live and you are able to concentrate on your own problems without some one elses pressures and problems you will be able to resolve your problems because you want to (the fact that you have already reached out for help proves that) but until you find that place you will have to try to hang in and dont give up its not hopeless its just gonna take a little time and patience good luck!

No You're situation is not hopeless. Hang in there, I bet you're stronger than you think. And if you feel like you're losing control. Pray and ask God to help you. Start praising God and guess what 'll happen those voices of those nasty people with not seem as loud. Your spirit will rise above the noise those boys are making. Just keep looking for a new place and Know you've weather the storms already,used your experience from weathering the storm and used it to make yourself stronger and Hold your head up High. I have faith you can get thru this shining so you'll be able to help others later down the road.

Lynn

hi there! am sorry to hear about that. Well, its either you moved out or they. You are still in processing in curing yourself or shall i say overcoming your difficulties. But if theres no other way you could moved out or they,i guess a "sit and talk together would help. Point out which is affecting you and disturbing your health and let them know how you are having the difficulties in dealing with it. At the same time, they can continue their so called activities but, in a time that it could disturb you less. Talk to them in a nice way and maybe , everything could be settled. Sometimes we think the worst one when it could be easier when its done. Goodluck!

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