How to become a mature person?

Question:

I feel akward when people treat me as an immature person.
M 21 years old. Talanted Guy.
I don't speak much by my nature. Coz i don't like to talk unnecessarily.
I remain silent much of d time.
I don't hav good friends. All r jealous of me. I don't speak against them coz i don't want to hurt anyone's heart.
I wish that i shud hav a Gf bt not able to do so, coz people think as if m of childish nature.
Due to d behavior of people towards me, i turn Shy and depressed.
I don't know what to do!
How 2 b a mature person? How can i improve my self? What all things i shud remember?
If anyone has understood my problem, can giv me ur solutions to this problem.
I vl be very thankful to u!....

Answers:
cant believe u have the same prob as mine..i dont have good friends,i have nothing to say in most of conversation and i hate to socialize due to my weakness in talking to people.most of my friends in my college dont treat me well due to my imcapable in talking..but at least u re lucky to be a brilliant person.people still look up on u.but its hard when it comes to conversation innit.i think its becuz u re too focusing in ur job innit n now u re turning to be a not so good conversationalist..same as me....i know im too focused in my studies since i was a kid,so i didnt talk much n now loook at me,a weirdo..im trying to change myself.yeah thats what i want u to do.change urself.i know it s really hard cuz ive tried before but it didnt work now that im teenager.but is it all about maturity thing?emm,im not sure.yea, i do think im not matured too compared to others who r the same age as me.cuz i dont talk too much.why people dontlike quite person?i have no idea.u know iwish to be somebody else.although i have good look,but it s not important.the more u can talk better,the more people want to befriend u.thats what i observe.so all i can say is try to talk more.me too.i have to change myself too.its hard innit when u dont like to tlak but u have to force urself..but thats reality

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