What is my personality and what can I do about it??

Question: I asked this question before and people asked to describe it a little. I am left handed, a libra and a horse in chinese terminology. I am short and not muscular. I dont have that much friends and I am at the bottom of the school's hierarchy. I get descent grades and I dont really go out that much. People say Im quiet and I dont talk that much. In school, I at least talk to a couple of girls but sometimes the popular kids underestimate me. All I can do is draw but in order to get their attention, I have to do something embarrassing or act out something suicidal. I hate criticism and Im always left out or the last person to earn an opportunity. What should I do? Should I become a person everybody wants me to be or admit that I am a loser and to forever live my life as a loser?

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Hey, that sounds almost exactly like me. But i've learned to live with myself and be happy. I'm always the one sitting alone at luch, but you know what? I've actually come to like it. Maybe i'm weird, i don't know. But i would rather have one or two really close friends. You always know where you stand with them, unlike having masses of people who call themselves your friends because your popular, then bail when you need someone the most. You never know if you can trust any of them. To me, being a loser is cooler then being popular. I'd hang out with you before i would the popular kids.

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check out www.goaskalice.com columbia u's super site for sex and mental heath Never ever become someone, that someone else wants you to be especially to get people to like you! Even if you feel alone in this world.Would you really want friends that just like the pretend you and not the real you inside?I think maybe join a club or something that has drawing in it. That way you can get to know people that like drawing too. I personally love drawing and I have a friend that loves it too.

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Your personality is who u are and you can't changed that.You should be proud of who you are and never forget that

As a retired mental health diagnostician and counselor, let me tell you that as much information as you think you've given us, much more is needed to "diagnose" a personality DISORDER. I emphasize that since diagnosticians can only diagnose DISORDERS and not personalities themselves. Certain tests, and interviews themselves, can go into more depth about various aspects of what you have presented, and tell you more about your personality, personality traits, and / or personality disorders, but you truly need an interview with a qualified professional before you can feel good about what someone says about what kind of personality you have and give you recommendations on what to do with it. You may also see more than one diagnostician in order to verify the initial assessment. I do wish you the best because I do know how qualified the diagnostician / clinician needs to be in order to get a good diagnosis / assessment. God Bless you.

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Ok you like 75% of kids feel like you are on the bottom. Better there than the other 25% that are mean and make others feel like they are on the bottom. You are not shy or you would not do something embarssing for attn. You just are selective about your friends. you enjoy drawing than offer that for dances or school elections and such and maybe get more friends. But Please yourself. Unless you are from a small town you probably waont see any of those other kids after 10 years.
I was just like you in school and yes my two close friends could call today (after 20 yrs and I would jump to help them) I have a good job, good BF, and a nice house and am happy I am not sure what you are wanting to know. People do not have a fixed "personality". We all have behaviors, emotions, and ways of interacting that are sometimes characterized. However, it sounds like you may have some traits of a personality disorder. You might want to look up "Borderline Personality Disorder".

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