what can i do!!?

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help, iam 29 and i have had mental health problems since 15, without going into the past, presentley my main problems are my anger and controling it, for a long time now ive had problems where i go out and lose control?? i seem to be angry at people and jealous of what im percieving them to have. i.e. a life. a future. friends. partners. im a lonely person i dont have a friend or partner and feel isolated alot of the time. ive been refered for psychotherapy by my social worker. i dont have an official diagnosis, but personality disorder has been mentioned to me by psychiatrists in the past. i have extreme low self esteem and dont feel worthy of anybodys love and respect. it seems like im in a constant state of anger and feeling jealous of other people & what i percieve theyve got. especially with women i feel rage towards women, although all i long 4 along with other needs is a partner. i just want 2 come through my problems but sometimes i wonder what is wrong with me. can n e 1 help?

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Take your social worker up on the therapy. It is clear you are looking for help, but you really ought to seek out someone who really knows what they are talking about. Wll most of us can do is say stupid things, say nice vague things, or encourage you to talk to a knowledgable person. I choose the last option.

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You need to join the US Armed Forces. This will get your mind off your problems. You will feel good about yourself, AND you will get to kill people.

You're screwed.just go ahead and kill yourself. You will not be missed by anyone. In fact, you're breathing up all the oxygen that the rest of us productive citizens need. EAT POOP! LOL

You just need serious counceling and anger management..

try looking at the world diferently.. see all the beautiful things in it

Whenever I feel desperately lonely, I write it down. Whenever I write in a jounal or I write a letter to myself, i don't feel so lonely anymore. I suggest writing when you fell angry or depressed or whatever. It has always helped me, and I really hope that it helps you.
Good luck with all of your endevors! Oh, might I suggest an online dating service to look for a partner? Or chat rooms to find a friend to talk to?

suck it up and be a man. you obviously weren't raised catholic. in home therapy as a child is all u needed. catholic iht consists of your old man givin u a smack when u messed up in anything. a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do, no one is gonna wait for you to handle your business, so while your sittin around sulking and breakin things, everyone else is progressing. make plans and follow thru. life isn't fair, but people have control over their own destinys.

C a Professional

have you been seen by a therapist or social worker? i think that's what you need. i don't think us lay people can really give you the help u need. see a trained professional

Don't give in to the "names" they are placing on your "condition" - you will feed into it and it will make it worse. Then you will end up dependent on drugs which you really don't need and losing your mind worse than what you are already going through. Help is fine-but don't let them bog you down with all that psycho mumbo jumbo. and not to get religious on ya.. but, that is mostly what it is - ur fighting more than you realize. you just aren't willing to accept it. when ya do. it will get easier to cope with cuz you have Someone fighting ur battles for ya.
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prayin for ya :) GBU

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