what should i do?
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People are always going to talk about you and there is always going to be someone that doesn't like you. Don't worry about them and don't play into their games. Do things that make you happy and concentrate on your education and when you aren't doing that hang out with people who care for you and respect you. After school and your friends, you won't have time to worry about haters.
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had the same problem. ignore it. face everyday..and at your 10 year reunion, you will be happy to see that those that made it hard on you are MISERABLE now..(cheating husbands, overweight.) Just don't worry about them and do YOUR own thang!
I have that problem too sometimes, and you just have to realize that people mostly only put you down when they know you are weak. Dont let on about your weakness and fight back if you can. If you can't, then just remind yourself that everyone else has problems, they are just better at hiding them than you are, and it will make you feel normal again. And eventually you will be able to stand up for yourself.
I'm in high school too and it can be hard just to forget what ppl r saying about you. You just need to remember that those ppl who say bad things about you are not your friends, so it really really does not matter what they think about you. Forget rumours, and don't try to please those people because no matter what you do, someone will always find something to say about it, so do what you want do - forget everyone else. It only matters what you think of yourself. If all else fails, turn to a counselor for help cuz self-esteem issues can lead to serious problems. If you are a religous person, turn to a youth group for help.
always be the leader, not the follower, stay away from those that make you feel blah, ignore them try hanging out in a different place of the school grounds i went through the same thing when i was in high school i was made fun of i was called rattle snake just because i would always sisssssssssss at them as they walked by me of course i was hurt by all this theres times that i did not want to go back to school i only had this 1 friend & she felt sorry for me cause she was in the same boat as i was we became very close friends through out the school yr. we hung out everywhere thank god we had a few classes together except for 1 i was so lost with out her she was my protecter i was very weak to where she was very strong but being around her i became very strong. this red headed freckled guy would always find me no matter where i was at he was always a step ahead of me calling me names in the hallways as we were changing classes everyone would just stare at us i wanted so much to become invisible at that point & time my friend told me just ignore him do not look at him do not say a word hes just embarrising him self. so this went on & on forever it seemed like & what was so bad is that him & i had a class together he sat a cross from me i just had enough of his name calling so i scream at him at the top of my voice would you just pls. leave me alone the class was very quite at that time the teacher ask whats the problem here so i told her how he would follow me all over the school name calling & this & that so she sent him to the principals office he was suspended for a few days thank god for that cause nothing was ever done during that yr. so after that he left me alone i just wanted to give you some insight what i went through as well nothing but bullys cause he had no friends nothing else better to do. good luck i feel for you.
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