after my divorce I lost my self esteem. Where did it go.?
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Walmart.
Don't blame yourself. You can pick up a box of self-esteem at isle 4 at (guess where) Walmart.
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Your self esteem disappeared into space! Annaken just found it and gave it 2 R2d2! Now he can speak english! congrats!
Most likely Sweden, but I'd try Denmark just to be sure.
man i understand about the loss of self esteem.my old man was a whack job.checkout my question under marriage.anyways.you are the only one not allowing you to feel ok or good about who you are.remember.we are our greatest obsticle in life
Control what you can. But, you cannot control the behavior or choice of someone else, not even a spouse. Be sad, but get over it and get on with life.
go to a gay bar as for if its your fault not really but ask your self did you please her or bord her
I really think that you should meet with a therapist to discuss your self-esteem issue.
OK. First of all your wife should have gotten therapy for her problem of being a victim of child sex abuse. Those victims never really get over it without help and will act out in various ways to try to relieve the pain. It is not unusual for them to be promiscuous.
Her behavior was totally irrational and there is no reason to blame yourself for it. She was trying to punish you, perhaps because you are a man and she has a need to punish men. Let it go. Hold your head up high. You were a good husband who did nothing wrong. You don't have to prove anything to anyone else. Next time find a woman without any baggage. You will have a much healthier relationship.
You have self esteem, it never left you just have a bruised ego. By no means should you feel bad for something SHE DID. How is it your fault and why should it be. You didn't put a gun to her head and make her do it and do not blame yourself. She did wrong and she knows it so she is trying to turn the tables to maker herself look good but it only makes her look more pathetic than she is. If you can't be a woman and own up to your own actions thats sad and she needs help. I hope you have someone you can talk to so this dosn't drive you nuts because you know what dosn't kill you only makes you stronger. Best of luck to you!
I feel for you as it happened to me too only I am female.I lost my self esteem too then went down the wrong path to regain it.I hit the bottle and unprotected sex was there too. After one too many alcoholic blackouts I picked myself up out of the muck and got on with my life.I had the support of 4 out of 5 of my kids and some true friends to help me.
I regained my self esteem and I know I am not a bad person and I also know and can admit I was wrong in handling a lot of my problemsI want to tell you that you are a good person and you can regain your self esteem. dont worry the abuser will get his just dessert as will my ex-hubby for what he has done to me and the children. Your self esteem has gone nowhere you just have to give it a nudge and if you can try counselling it really does help to talk to someone detached from the problem. I hope i was able to help you .
Dont lose self esteem over a woman. It doesnt matter how cute, nice, or how may years you have..women are crazy beatchies. They want to suck the life out of you and make you feel like you are nothing. they all have awful mental problems and need a man to take the blame. Leave her go..she has had her problems, but it was not your fault. go find a good, young gal with no baggage. life is too short, even if you are in love with some crazy woman...it is not worth it
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