Am I the only one with a dull useless life?

Question:

I seem to just exist. I am estranged from my family and that can't be fixed so many of the activities I used to enjoy with them are gone. I have no real friends and work evenings and weekends so I get restless during the day and on my days off. I work, shop, clean house, and go to the mall but there must be more to life than this. I spend way to much time online but I really haven't anything else to do. I don't have any money so I can't do alot of stuff. I used to go to the library but it is closed for remodeling for several months. Does anyone else have a life like this or is everyone elses life a blast?

Answers:
Nope, nope. I'm have a useless meaningless life too. Go to work, monday-friday, 9a-9p. I usually just go home after work, then smoke some weed, sleep, then wake up for work the next morning. Its a never ending cycle that I wish could just end already, dammit.
All my friends have boyfriends or husbands with babies and stuff like that.seems like everyone else has the life but me.

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my life is dull and useless too. That's why I'm shipping out in August. United States Marine Corps OOHRAH!

I used to have torturous jobs to do. I'm glad that's over, I'm very glad to be out of hell even though, I only sit around now and get fat. I'm sure lots of people feel the same way. You're the only one who can fix it though. You need to find something you're passionate about. Volunteer somewhere. Take up jogging. Make it your goal to run a marathon.

My life is worst..

Why are you estranged from your family? I'm not asking you, but I suggest it as something you should ask yourself.

YOU'RE NOT ALONE!

I think alot of us here (on answers all the time) are going through much the same thing.

I have pretty much the same story as you, except I work from home and have 3 kids, ages 3, 8, and 12, that I'm raising on my own. I don't even make it to the mall !! lol ..

One thing I've found that I love to do, and it makes me feel more "useful" outside of my little family, is going to the local nursing home here and just spending a little time. It was a little rough at first (those places can be scary), but it really made me appreciate my life more. Now I bring a few color books and colors, some old magazines (for the men and the ladies), and just find someone who looks like they could use a friend. I even bake cookies (always sugar-free, there's a lot of diabetes around there), and hand them out in little bags. Especially around the holidays . Father's and Mother's Day, Easter, Valentines, Thanksgiving, Christmas . some of these people have no family at all and they will look forward to seeing you again. You don't have to be born into a family to be "family".

When I'm really blue, I pick up a Harry Potter book and get lost in it.

You can write me at crickets1117@yahoo.com if you want a "penpal" to share stories with. My name is Jen :)

I'm sorry you feel that way.

Can you re-unite with at least one family member?

There are lots of people who would be your friend,
if you show a sincere interest in THEM.

Please consider Your Heavenly Father as A FRIEND.
He is the author of the BOOK which reveals the Purpose of LIFE

Why not have a discussion with Jehovah's Witnesses next time they stop by.
They're great friends to have~ trust me :)

Nope, my life is pretty much dull and useless too.

If you want someone to talk with in email without having to drop five points to ask Questions.well, my email option should be on in my Answers Profile, and if it isn't:

bpoe (at) prairienet (dot) org

Punctuate as needed: (at)=shift 2 , (dot)=.

Hope we can at least share some boredom and/or horror stories. ;)

I know where you are coming from. I work two jobs and I am in school.Plus I live in a new area so I do not really know anyone.

One thing I have learned so far is that you have to try new things and meet new people to get out of the boring routine of daily life.

Kind of have to put yourself "out there" meaning go out and be outgoing. Not like annoying but confident. All good.

Good luck!

G I understand your situation. Don't be envious, most other people don't think their own lives are a blast, either, even if they seem to you to be better than yours.

You say you can't fix the estrangement from your parents but is that really true? Can't you at least visit or have a dinner with them once in a while?

And your town probably has things you can do for low cost, like visiting museums once or twice a month as a special treat. You need some variety even if you can't do it every day. Want me to send you some good mysteries I've read and don't need to keep any more? lately i felt like that and then felt better again. it is a phase find someone to talkto it helps. make a new friend a coworker, or a minister

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