abstinence from intimacy?

Question:

i love being in love and everything that comes with it but i'm starting to believe that being single and consequently not engaging in romantic affairs gives me more peace. 'cause if i fall in love, i fall for real & once it's over it hurts too much and it makes me totally shattered; emotionally & mentally. i love romance & passion but if it's not with the right person i don't do it. so i guess, what i'm really asking is for your opinion on coming to terms with being single and how to control your desire. i don't wanna feel it 'cause it makes me long for something i can't have.

thanks

Answers:
Being single can have its own rewards. How can you control your desires? That is a more significant dilemma.

Well, in the bible it says it is better to marry than to lust. Many people struggle with this. With romance and love, comes heartache sometimes. It is part of life. I guess you have been hurt really bad. But I wouldn't give up something that I enjoy and is important for a life of celebacy. Unless you can be strong and not lust. Pray hard and often. Or get married.

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