Dream Interpretation?
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don't worry about dreams. they are just your body (or brain's) way of trying to put pieces together. if you didn't think about these thoughts during the day, these things could have occurred in your subconscious. i've observed that sometimes when there are things that i didn't think about during the day, they get stored in my subconscious and they appear on my dream. sometimes dreams are weird, it's because your brain is trying to "load" all the subconscious thoughts you had during the day and put them together "to make sense".
case 1: when i watch a scary movie. if i tell myself to "not think about it" so that i wouldn't dream about it, the more it pops in my dream. vs. if i think about it as much as i can, it doesn't appear in my dream.
what your dream probably means is that you've been thinking about this during the day but you didn't like that thought, so you tried "rejecting it" and it stored in your subconscious. well this doesn't mean you should ignore it. maybe you are sensing something in your man that makes you think these thoughts. don't forget all about the "gut feeling" -- things you observe in other people. sometimes it seems that these "gut feelings" are right, it's because you tend to correlate those observations you make with past experiences.
ex. if a dog is growling at you, you tell yourself, it's not safe to touch the dog -- why? -- probably because in the past, you've had an experience bitten by a dog, and one of the warning signs was the growling. it's what they call in psychology, "learned response" you may not remember being bitten by the dog, but the growling triggers your gut feeling.
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well it definitely means you're questioning his fidelity. as to whether he really wants to be with his son's mom.that's not so definite. find out some more about what's going on. maybe even ask him.
Forget the dreams. Go with the cold hard facts. Your "man" is sending messages to another woman saying he misses her. Have you confronted him on this? You need to ask him what is going on. Back to the dreams.it is your fear of losing him triggered by what you have experienced. Your bond has been broken. Trust that was not yet secure is now weakened. She(mother) has something you do not. A past & a child with this man. Your dreams are an extension of your life & fears. This man is burning the candle at both ends & it sounds as if it is time to give him an ultimatum.You or her. Better yet, screw what he wants, what do you want? You should stand up before you get knocked down! His past is strong. You may not be strong enough to deal with a man who has so much excess baggage in his lap!
I like to think there are people on the other side of the living that care for me but the only thing they can do is make curtains fluttery and give dreams. Now the only ones that would care about you are your grandfathers. So follow their advice and be careful. Don't let anyone know you have an advantage on solving life's troubles.
Your dreams are a sign of you feeling insecure about your relationship. You have a right to be concerned, if your man is telling his ex he misses her. You need to have a talk with him .
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