I get beaten up a lot.?
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At the age of 13, in the 7th grade, my daughter experienced some of the same problems. A group of 8th graders routinely harrassed and attacked her. My daughter had started a new middle school. She was gifted in math and science, and she was very pretty. Although she was friendly and outgoing, this "gang" type element obviously had personal issues.
My daughter confided in me and I went to speak to the school principal. That idiot told her he didn't believe her; "Why would they pick on you?", he said. "If it's true, I know they're at lunch right now; why don't we go down and you can point them out to me." Even I know that would have sealed her fate at that school.
Feeling that no one could or would protect her, and being threatened and attacked often, my daughter took a serated bread knife to school and placed it in her locker. She even told the girls about it to scare them off. What happened was that the girls reported her, she was arrested at school and booked for having a knife in her locker, and expelled for one year from school. From there it was all down hill for her. Her interest in school was never the same.
It's VERY important that you get your parents involved or other student advocate for your safety. You may be reluctant to do this, but you could potentially lose out not only on education, but on life. In the meantime, the bullys will continue to progress.
The school is responsible for ensuring your safety and well being while there. They MUST do this, or they can be held legally responsible for not doing so!
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Learn karate and then become a cop.
I would go and talk to your principal and explain what is going on. If that dont work then kick the person where it counts.. they won't touch you again! I no how U feel. for me I got smarter i get back to them after school on the streets with friend and get reveng or simple have secrity friend alot help. or lift weight and grow some muscles that all there is to in.
He who professes to be all and know all best better be able to defend his position both mentally and physically. Sounds as if you might have a chip on your shoulder that others are sensing and all chips are worthily of being knocked off. My best advise is take some self defense course, you are so smart that should be easy and thus..you have solved your problem. For sometimes with brains one must have guts too.
maybe you need to be more of the type to start whipping those who whipped you i suggest getting a ball bat or some small weapon and just beat the **** out of everyone in your path hey the principal wont even notice and no teacher will ever know who started it so use the situation to your advantage !! and best of luck !
Maybe it's time for your parents to hire a lawyer and have him contact the Board of Education and Police Department, that will usually motivate someone to get of their @ss and do something. Good luck and best wishes. dude that sucks, i'm really sorry. if the teachers aren't responding i don't know if there's much you can do, school policies are hard to change. i guess the best advice i can give you is to stay out of places where you usually get beat up. it's kind of hard to decide whether to change the system that's not protecting you, or change the jerks that are beating you up. as a last resort, you might want to take some self-defense or boxing classes, that way you might feel safer, although it won't stop guys from trying to jump you unless you really take out some huge guy and everybody gets scared of you. good luck man, i wish you the best.
Never mine police. Take Martial Art lesson. Are there any Ju Jitsu class in your area? It should help you gain confident back.
My brother is small, he beat the crap out the guys that over 6 feet tall, and over 200 lbs too.
Have your mother write a letter to the school board telling them what is going on and that nothing is being done about it. If it doesn't stop then hire a lawyer and sue the **** out of the school system because you are being harassed and that is against most school policies. Is there another school around the area you can be transferred to? My cousin was going through the same thing and he switched schools and everything is great now. If you don't want to switch you can always learn some self defense.
I would get really go at fighting and kick his @ss.
GOOD LUCK i hope you get even with the person
If you want to stop getting beaten up you must:
Forgive the kids who assualted you
pray about the situation.
Try not to fight back.
The day you do this you will become a man.
Love conquers all.
If you are not understanding me or otherwise then just pray for a better day. I will pray for you.
well fight back do something about it i know u like it but u got to do something
ask your parents to attened a private school.
As a teacher unfortunately our hands are often tied with what we can and can't do to students who either bully and pick fights, or just fight in general. The educational system has taken the majority of our powers away. Schools can get sued for just about anything now. I suggest that you take your parents with you to talk to the principal about his lack of action.
As for you, make sure you aren't carrying an attitude that is provoking others into wanting to jump you. I know that does not seem to make sense, but as an educator I see it quite often. Students will act a way that provokes others, whether it is conscious or not. Students your age do not have that sense of thinking before acting.they just allow emotion to take over.
I had this very talk with a student who provoked others into wanting to beat him up on a daily basis. He was arrogant, always calling other stupid, telling them they could not read, he also came from another school district and did speak differently.
His behavior simply irritated others and made them want to confront him. Wrong? of course! But in the end he realized he was the cause of his own problems and he had some changing to do.
Good Luck I am so sorry you are in this situation.Okay this is what I suggest. The first thing is to get solid proof as to who did what etc. I would start documenting everything.This includes the harrassment,beatings, and teachers/principal.A written journal with dates,times and names.Get a recording device to tape any of this.
In getting help from anywhere--proof.If the local police,school teachers and such do nothing you have a great case to take to court.You could also take this proof to the media in your town and expose the total disregard for a students basic safety and rights.You need to get yourself into a self defense class.This will not only help you physically but mentally as well.You might even make some friends! Best of luck.
Get your local media involved. Send a clean version of this letter to the radio station and ask for advice. There is a syndicated talk show I listen to "Micheal Baisden" The Bad Boy of Radio. and loves to put schools on blast that do not properly educate and look out for our youth. Have you tried talking to the school counselor? Hopefully your parents can soon get you away from that school.
I really hate this is happening to you.
One other thing, evaluate the situation and make sure you are not doing anything to provoke them..like calling or treating them like morons!
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