I want to change--can someone please kindly help? :(?
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ok you're obviously feeling crappy about something you've done. whatever it was, if you really want to change, make a sacrifice that will make things better for someone that you've hurt. Also, feeling crap isn't enough. You have to make yourself a promise that you will actually change.. but most importantly, you need to actually stop being a bad person, and excercise some will power when the moment of temptation actually comes. that's what it all come down to- the moments of truth.
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Find Jesus, bring him into your heart and home, and he wil renew you.
Read the bible too.
Go out and do some good deeds for people in your community.
Get drunk and screw the first person you see. It might not make your life better, but at least it will make someone else very happy.
Only you can change yourself, do what you think is best, perhaps find new friends, set things straight with your family, give yourself a new and fresh look, and involve yourself in activities that help others. Good Luck:)
First of all, recognize that you are human, and human beings always make mistakes because we are all IMPERFECT.
Next, admit and COMMIT--- to yourself that you have made mistakes and that you will try hard to LEARN from them.
Have faith in God. Use that faith to help you keep from committing the same mistakes over and over.
Remember that you are a good person. You have made mistakes in the past, but you do not have to make them again in the future. You are NOT a bad person, you have merely made bad choices.
Help someone ELSE. You will be surprised how helpful, good, and kind you can be if you concentrate on fixing OTHER people's problems. Rmember that what you give, always comes back to you in one form or the other.
Talk to people. You will find out very quickly that you are NOT alone.
Have a great day, and smile a LOT every day, starting now.
Well, you can't change at all until you know what you want to change into. You also cannot change the past. Whatever "Sins" you've done will always be done, but if you can stand up and say to yourself "I did those things, but I don't do them now," then you're on the right track.
For yourself, define "Sins" "Newer" and "Better." Until you know what these are, you have no goal to aim for, and no pitfalls to avoid.
Now, for the "Sins" you listed, consider why you do them. For every human behavior, there is a payoff. Once you know what need, or desire they filled, you can look for new ways to satisfy yourself, or you can find newer, better, and more satisfying needs and desires that different actions can fill.
Next, define "Newer" and "Better." These are your goals. You may not be able to achieve all of them right away, but you should pick out some of the easiest ones, or at least pick out things that you'll need to do in order to achieve "Newer and Better" status later on.
Good luck
you sound as though you really mean it .so that has to be worth giving an answer to..you have overcome your first hurdle by admitting you have done things you know you shouldnt have.so that is a good start . now you mustTRY and put right the wrong you have done to something or someone .it wont come overnight and wont be easy you have to earn your trust back from people..take it one day at a time.your a tryer..and god loves a tryer..best of luck take care
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