I cut myself and nobody helps me even when i do get help from doctors it just doesn't work for me it just hurt
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girl i know drugs isn't the answer but i went through the same thing.got put on lexpro..and snap, a week later..i felt like a whole new me. like i was normal.or whatever normal is. but please dont cut yourself.it's not worth it.i wish i would have never done that. but i do know y ppl would want to kill themselves and i never wwanna feel that way again. i had to get help and it worked! hang in there. good luck
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If you don't want to be alive so much then why are you? If you REALLY wanted to die you would have cut yourself right in the first place.
If not, stop trying to get attention and seek help.
Well, what you need to do is look inside yourself and change it. Since you are so stuck in your worthlessness though, you won't do what it takes, so go ahead, kill yourself.
I don't think you will though because this is a plea for help, and if you haven't killed yourself yet after cutting yourself, you won't because you actually see a value to your life and want to live.
funny ain't it
I like to cut when I feel good
when my depression started getting me down, I just didn't feel like slicing myself up
go to a Psychologist. You are here for a reson and you will be denying that person your life. Do not be selfish. you are cared about an loved. Seek help, look to the Bible, go read John 3:16. I am a life coach and I believe you are a purpose inthis world, not a mistake or a failure. you have thousands of reasons to live, one of them is love.yes love, you are loved. its better to feel the physical pain than the mental pain right? thats why i used to cut myself you need to talk to someone when your feeling like you want to cut. im here if you ever need somone to talk to.
http://www.hopeline.com/
try calling 800.999.9999. did you try getting some medicine?
I have a friend with the same issue. I am trying to help her and I hope you get help as soon as possible because this can be really risky and dangerous. Please don't ever try stupid things such as suicide, remember that there is people who care about you, whether you say no, but I am sure that at least 10 people care about you.
Also remember that there is a second chance!
You do not say if you are on meds Or what kind of help you try to get from your doctors. Obviously there is more here than is being stated, but my first incline would be to find a new doctor & get on some anti-depressents. GOOD LUCK!! you are definintly screwed aren't you?? either i tell you advice and you don't care, or i don't tell you advice and you don't care.. ummmm well don't kill yourself now since you haven't done it yet. live in the moment not the past or the future--- take a breath go outside feel the sun on your face and dance in the rain--- that's it---
chick, ive been through all this, and got throught it, i have done alot of things to commit suicide but now im so glad i didnt. You need to talk to your family and explain how you feel, they may find it hard 2 accept but eventually they will, my family did. i went to the doctors and took anti depressants for over a year, i dont no if it was these that helped but eventually i pulled through. maybe if you go to a couniller and talk to them they will help.
have fun with life. make life worth living
Depression is a very hard thing to move on from.In fact you never really do. How do you not see any reason for you to be alive? If you killed yourself.your friends and family would miss you dearly. If you say that you dont have any friends, maybe you do, you just havent let any people come into your life. If you say well my family dont care because of this or that. Well I can tell you this they do care no matter what happened in the past. Cutting yourself is very serious to your health. I am no doctor or no professional.I understand though what you are going through I have been there before. You can think about the day after and hell ,s forever punishment.
yeah, sometimes it seems like we have to see something to make sure we're alive. and not to mention, it has a relaxing affect. but, they can lock you up for cutting. they can't for crying. fluid will come out one way or another, but it would be better if you chose tears over blood. i know how that feels, and its a sad place to be. get some good music. learn how, or practice playing guitar. it has pain to it, and it won't get you locked up. plus its a form of self expression. or you could join a gym, exercise has pain to it and a positive affect on your self esteem and health. i hope you start feeling better. and as lame as this sounds, you can contact me to talk if you want to.
Okay, to begin, I don't know what your exact situation is at home but if someone is abusing you, you should contact DYFUS immediatley or call the police.
As for you having no reason to be alive, that is not true at all. Everyone serves a purpose in life, we are all here for a reason. Maybe you are a good friend to someone and they need you, maybe you will grow up to have a kid one day; no matter what there is always a reason and purpose.
As for the cutting thing, I don't know too much about it except that it is a type of disease. A therapist may help but only to a certian extent, you have to find the strength and love within yourself not to cut. I'm sorry I can't help you with the cutting thing, I wouldnt want to give you any wrong advice but all I can tell you is you are worth a lot and once you find that within yourself the cutting will stop on it's own. Please seek help if your family is hurting you in anyway. Tell a teacher, cop or some sort of authority. Good luck to you - much love
You know what, maybe right now there isn't any reason for you to be alive.but what about a year from now.or next week, or tomorrow? what about in the next 5 minutes! The point is, nothing stays the same, and no matter how much your hurting and you think things will never change, they can..but only YOU can make the change! You have to seek the help you need! Like you stated before- you probably wont listen, and nobody can help you! Well no one can change your attitude and ultimately it is your choice-Your depression could be interfering with your decision- that's where you need to force yourself to seek professional help! you life will turn around..but ONLY when you make the first move-It's up to you..TOTALLY up to you! and what ever choice you make, you'll have to live with it the rest of your life! Girl, I had something like that when I was like 13-14 years old. I truly believed that the end of my life was the only thing to look forward to. Please don't feel alone. The only thing that helped me was to get on line and find other people who were in similar situations and talk to them truthfully and it really helps you start to let go of the desire to do it, when you know you might actually miss someone or something. Best wishes
Do not cut yourself anymore. You should try to go to an psichologist instead of killing yourself. it will help!
I used to cut too. I know how much relief it can bring once you cut. I cut because it felt like it was the only thing I coudl control in my life (after things spun out of control) and it just made me feel so much better. I'm better now but the scars are constant reminders of how I felt at the time, what made me feel that way, etc. I still get the desire to cut now but I can get past it by occupying myself with something else. I've also thought about suicide like in high school and college but never felt I was "brave" enough for it. I think that what you are feeling is valid and you need to recognize that. I didn't want help because I didn't see cutting as a problem. I was the only person who could control how much I did it and how deep I was. No one can make you stop but you but you'll have to want to stop. Know that your life is worht living and that many people care about you. I hope things gte better.
crying is better than cutting.
trust me. Please..don't stop asking for help. Have you tried inpatient therapy followed by partial hospitalization ? I was in a similiar situation a few years ago and that helped me tremendously. I still get depressed sometimes but not that horrible feeling you have right now.
I don't know if you believe in GOD or some other higher power but pray, meditate..something to connect yourself to.Life does get better.
Go to this website. www.suicidology.com. It has some good tips.
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