Are you suffering from grief, and how are you dealing with it?
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I was kind of grieving over someone a few years ago, it was my grandmother. She was always there for me and then she just went away.. I went to the wake, to say my goodbyes.. and I got so many people mad because I didn't cry or shead a single tear, I just sat there staring at her and looking around at everyone else.. I never left my mothers side and I just kept try to comfort her.. when finally one of my cousins asked why I didn't show any saddness what was wrong with me.. My answer was simple and my grandmother told me it before she died.. "When someone dies they want you to remember them but they don't want you to be crying over their death, they want you to take what they've taught you and share it with others, they want you to smile and think that they are in a better place that they will always be looking down at you.. but most of all they want you to be strong and help those who grieve though there pain..." Thats what I did, I focused on everything she said.. and it helped me though my grieveing even if some people say I wasn't grieving.. I was, I was just hiding it to be strong for everyone else..
I am suffering with grief of painful heart-break with someone I truely loved and cared for. If you wish to chat, IM me. I need to share my emotions with someone anyway.
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