Was it really wrong? (Did I Cross my limits?)?


Question:
I gotta friend thru yahoo messenger.Then we became mobile friends. Without seeing each other's face, we became thick friends. We used to talk atleast for 10 min daily. After nearly 6 months, we exchanged our photos. After spending another 6 months we proposed our love for each other. Intially she didnt accept my proposal but I know well that she loves me a lot and she is rejecting me only because she feared that she may get deviated from her career goals.Eventhen she used to share all her happy and sad moments in life.We didnt try for seeing each other personally.Fewdays before,fate played..and we both met each other.That day, we slept together.We didnt have intercourse but we did everything else.We didnt even think of sleeping together before we met but suddenly somehow we just lost control.We didnt intercourse considering that it will affect both of our careers now.We have decided that we are going to marry each other in future. But anyways Im feeling a bit bad after that day..

Answers:
dear, remember one thing in life..that Love can not be wrong,but causes wich are interrelated to loe may be NOT CORRECT.your move to eachother is very natural and gradual... but there is something in between..!
both of you are considering career as a part of life along with love shows your positivity for eachother..but i'm sorry to say that 6 months are not enough to decide with whom you 'll spend your life...!!!
any ways,your friend is not accepting your proposal or may be after sleeping togather both of you r "Guilty" of doing something wrong.. our family background and cultural never allow to sleep togather before marriage...and u did so,that is the reason of you guilt.

it is good for both of you to feel bad about that night...so that it will make your relation more n more strong..it shows that you care for her n yourself.
Every person used to live with his/her set of principles...and at some extent your doing and your principles are crossing eachother...so it will be better for both of you to take some time to let it be solved.
dont be committed to whatever you can not do..and the best thing is to share feelings of oneanother minutely...and do respect it.

all the best,for your brighter future.
hey my friend u are so lucky tha u met a nice girl who loves u so dont let her go like this... secondly u are lucky that u have such a smooth life so why are u feeling bad .. u didn't did anything wrong u were in ur limits... i think u both should marry and i tell u bhabhi ji loves u alot and after marriage send me sweats bye best of luck and very good wishes to both of u! see ya


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