What to people get out of trying to hurt people who ask for help?
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It gives them a perverted sense of enjoyment.
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Because we don't care very much?
Stop being silly and, frankly, get over it, Life is not as bad as you may think.
Just damn mean people anymore.
Your talking to the wrong people.Try professional people to talk to
confide in.
Some times we need to be crul to be kind, as for what I have read from your questions, well I wish I had your worrys. Young little rich kid? Try looking at Asia and the floods, The sudan with children starving to death and the mother not being able to help but just wait until the last breath has been drawn. I could go on. Take a good look around you girl, there are people who will never have what you are lucky enough to take for granted. Look at the quetion I posted "if you had 24 hrs to live" I almost lost my son when he was 3mnths old and I lost another a couple of years later. Did I sit down and feel sorry for myself, no I neede to be strong for my wife. I had to wait until later to let my sorrow out. Give yourself a shake and enjoy life.
What I will say may help. I believe that suicide is group murder and some people are not being nice. Depressives or abused persons need to find others who have been through the same struggle. Don't expect the winner-players to be kind or even understanding. The rat race of life has two sides and they don't understand each other's life. Don't give up. The ones that hurt the most don't even have a clue about the mind and its problems. They can well end up in a psychiatric hospital when their group gets mean with them.
I guess they enjoy basking in their cold heartedness. Keep asking for help. Seek it out. It will make you better and stronger. Don't worry what others think. Do what's best for you.
Check your other question again. People are only trying to help but get frustrated because they think you are not listening to them. They are trying to understand your pain but because they are not in your situation they cannot understand it. Have faith.
wind em up big time
People are jerks. I was in your place. I know how you feel. I know what it's like to ask for help, and be ignored. Or be called stupid. I understand. Don't listen to them, they aren't worth it.
Some people think, that those who have mental health issues are "mad" or "bad", "selfish or self-centred". Their thoughts make them feel superior! But we all know that they are anything but.
It is the intelligent, thinking person who asks questions. It is the brainless, selfish, snide, ignorant bully who thinks s/he is better than everyone-else. When someone is being hurtful, or saying hurtful things hust imagine them standing naked with no-clothes on, talking with a silly-sounding, high-pitched voice, and REMEMBER - YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT YOUNG WOMAN, MADE IN GOD'S IMAGE- You are loved and you have the potential to do GREAT things, both for yourself and for others. Try to treat others as you would like them to treat you. When they say hurtful things to you or about you, all you have to say is, "That was very unkind! I don't deserve that! Smile, and walk away. You know that you ARE better than them, but you don't have to boast. God sees everything; He created you, he loves you and that is all that matters. Keep smiling, it will drive them MAD wondering what you've been up to! and that's all you need to know. Sleep tight, little-one.
Because some people are sado-masochist and so miserable they do not want to see people get out of a rut when they are in it also
I don't know sweetie, perhaps it makes them feel better, lollipops answer was horrible and SO to was little brother1961 to this question. They can only be making you feel worse. Unfortunately there are some cruel people in this world!
I think you should seriously try and talk to someone though, you have been very brave posting these questions on here and opening yourself up for criticism, once you do it you won't look back i promise, take care babe xxxxxx
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