what to do.?


Question:
when you are depressed and alone, have sucidal thoughts and fantasies but NOT SUCIDAL, just thinking about it. And you want to talk but no one is ever around when you feel like talking or you can't talk or type it out? I'm bipolar ,unmedicated and just broke up with my gf, I'd been dating her for 3yrs and just bought her the ring of her dreams. but I don't feel anything right now just blah. no happy, sad, anger, peace joy NOTHING.

I don't and won't drink or do drugs including mj so what can i do to get past this point in my life with out going to the hospital. I hate those places.

I got no family that is any where around or that I can talk to if I wanted to.

I just want to feel something again.

Answers:
I think most people at times have felt like you have; completely empty, most people are afraid to say it though. I know I have and honestly what helped was getting off my butt, going for a walk outside when it was nice and sunny out, where I felt freer than I did in my apartment. It was really hard to get up and go, like almost impossible and one day, as I was looking up sites on line on how to kill myself with the least amount of pain, it was sort of the turning point. I didn't have family or friends that I thought I could tell because I didn't think that they would understand what I was going through. It sucked because I felt so alone and empty, almost like I was a black hole. I know how you feel. Try getting up and going for even a small walk around the block or something. Every day go further and further (I walk almost ten miles now, not every day, but when I can, I do) and that can help. If you can afford it (walking is free by the way), try and go see a counselor. I was completely against going to counseling for personal reasons, but one time a person who kinda knew what was going on, sort of forced me into going. It was the best thing should could have done. Really and truly, now I am a different and better person for it. You've got people rooting for you, even if you don't know it. If you do feel suicidal, even if you hate the hospitals, go because life is too precious to loose it. Try what you can, to go for that walk, that might help you think clearer. You can do this, even if right now you are hurting so much you don't feel anything. Keep us posted okay.

Other Answers:
You need to join the US Armed Forces. This will get your mind off your problems. You will feel good about yourself, AND you will get to kill people.

There are people that can counsel you and ask you questions so you can understand your feelings better..if you don't want to do that then I suggest keeping yourself busy and trying to keep your mind off of it..hang out with friends and have fun..or try. Well hunny your not alone.A lot of people feel the way you feel.Go get some sunshine.I tell that to almost everyone,but it really does help.I wish you the very best.I know how you feel about hospitals,I can't stand them!What about seeing a doctor though?When you get as bad as you seem to be I really think you need some meds.I recently switched to Lexapro.It seems to be doing pretty good.I wish you the very best!♥ Oh yeah see if there is a help line in your area.Contact life line is one.They have people trained to talk to you and help you.♥


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Trust me, we ALL have difficult times. Suicide doesn't solve anything! This will pass. Life goes on and you just have to roll along with it. there is soooo much to live for. You should seek professional help. Good luck and god bless.

IF YOU ARE HAVING MANY THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE THEN MY FRIEND YOU ALREADY ARE SUICIDAL. YOU NEED TO SEEK TREATMENT NOW ! ODDS ARE YOURS THOUGHTS WILL ESCALATE AND SOONER OR LATER YOU WILL ACT ON THEM. YOU'LL HAVE A HIGHER % OF STABILIZATION YOU GET THERAPY NOW. GOOD LUCK.




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