have you ever been raped or abused...? or are you like really scared of being raped or abused....?

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i live in a safe neighborhood but i am still like really scared about being abducted and raped and or murdered. im like scared to walk around outside by myselfe. like just on the sidewalk in the daytime even. and when cars drive by i go into someones driveway so the person thinks i live there so they wont try to abduct me... does anyone else have this problem?? and has anyone ever been raped?? wut is it like.....?????

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Yes,Honey I've been raped,and it's worse than horrible.It happened 16yrs.ago and it's something I'll have to live with for the rest of my life.I won't give the details,because it has no bearing on what is going on with you.It's very good to have a "cautious" attitude these days,but it sounds like you for some reason are almost on the paranoid side.Did something happen to someone you know or love?Can you remember when these feelings started?And if you can remember when they started,what happened just before they did?It is very wise to follow your gut instincts,because if I would've followed mine,the rape never would've happened.But,Sweetie you can't live your life in fear like this.I would suggest that you go to a counselor,and talk this out.You are missing out on so much in life being worried and scared.Are you living on your own for the first time?Or have you heard on the news,something happened close by?I'm just trying to get you to think about what is maybe causing this.The bad thing about this also,is you may be so wrapped up in your fear,that you may not be aware of something or someone that you should.Just go talk to someone,so you can get some peace of mind.I've been raped,and I don't even worry as much as you do.I won't give ANYONE or ANYTHING that much power over me living my life.So go find out what is really going on,and start living again. Hope this helps you some.God bless you.

I was molested in my church at age 7. It sucked. I had nightmares a lot when I was a kid. I always am scared of someone breaking into my house!

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