I'm 35 yrs old. Am I a loser? I've got no life, no kids, no wife, I get no love. what do you think?
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listen.
there's at least one reason for you being depressed. i guess you broke up with a girlfriend or something a few years ago? got fired? whatever.
A) change your time schedule. you are in a vicious cycle. sleep early (23-23:30) and wake up early (7:00-7:30) this is VERY important. do it and you will remember me when you wake up at 7:00.
B) gradually change your diet. do not eat meat, milk, become a vegan. raw fruit, vegetables etc. have great variety. try to find only things that have not been sprayed with chemicals or animal poisons. and avoid excessive drinking. every now and then have some thing. you know you can set the rules. you will start understanding your body.
C) reset your thoughts. you know it and i know it there is no reason to do something that would only cause pain. besides it is a cowards action. and you asking this question shows you are not a coward.
D)after you start organizing your thoughts, start asking yourself. do you know how many mentally unbalanced people are there out in the world? plenty. start watching people. start asking questions. where are we going? why? do you like the world? can it be better? is there something we can do?why all these wars? drugs? people going mad? people killing themselves? do you want to live in a better world?answering these you will see there is a good reason for strange vegan diet, for less violence, for more action, for love.
E) make a plan. set a target in your life. define a purpose. face the question bravely. WHY do you live? after you decide on that, there is really nothing to stop you. it doesn't matter much if you are not reach, if you are not married, or if you are not going to. what matters is that you are one of the 6000000000. you may not be that special, but you are unique. do not waste this, it is not an act of love not for you, neither for the rest 5999999999
F)you may laugh or think i am gone (because it is not in fashion nowadays), but when in a hard time, read the bible.it is by far the most interesting book i ever read. and it has nothing to do with religions what i am saying.
G)never give up
H)START
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yea but it is ok
ur not a loser ur just having a mid life crisis. it should pass most adults go through it. u're not hopeless. u just need someone to motivate you thats all. but u also have to motivate yourself too.. u can do it. if u want a wife, u have to look for her. go to clubs, or where ever people your age hang out.it's not too late, don't lose hope!!
wow calm yourself down there. dont be negative. you've got friends right? if you do then your not alone. uhm dont worry not everyone gets married and whatever. just be happy your alive and im pretty sure if you stay positive things will be better.
ur ok
go to a dr. and tell them you are depressed. http://search.yahoo.com/bin/search?p=depression I think you most certainly are depressed and need to switch who you are seeing for this. If you aren't taking prescriptions you should check it out, if only to get out of this funk. Get help now, don't wait!
Now, from a non-religious standpoint, we are all here for a reason. There is something meaningful that we are to do whether we realize that we are doing it or not. You are not a loser. You are down on your luck, it happens to everyone. This will pass, do not give up, your time is not meant to be over yet!
NO!! you are NOT a loser! People have hard times in life but it will get better.. suicide is not the answer, u have to stick around and wait for what good things that life has in store for u!
it will get better.
Seriously, you should be glad at your age to have the opportunities and freedom to do what you like. Let's see here, what exactly are you missing out on? Getting married and then divorced because you were immature/too young. Having kids and not seeing them/having to pay child support, ect. Not have to worry about a babysitter, etc. You have the freedom to travel, do what you want without the responsibility of taking care of another person.
And you will never find someone if you don't love yourself first because noone wants someone who is insecure. Good luck.
I don't think you're a loser. You just lost yourself and your motivation. Just tell yourself that for your "yahoo" friends here you'll at least get a part time job to keep you busy, get you out of the house and meet new people. It'll work wonders for you! Think of it this way.you can't get a life, have kids, get love and a wife if you don't get out of the house to do it! Do it for us! We'll motivate you! :))))))))))) If you think you are a loser then you will always be one. You have control of your life. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do whatever it takes to make your life work for you. While you are doing that, see a counselor and get the help you need. Suicide isn't the answer. God put you here because you are special. Life wouldn't be the same without you.
Survey says.yes
Its OK though, 90 % of people are losers
Go to a real psychiatrist and get some counseling along with some medication. You are deeply depressed. It happens to many people.
It happens to the best of people. The brain chemistry gets messed up. Get some help asap
Start with small goals and then go from there.
Get some help today if you still have such strong feelings of suside.
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