My mom has cancer and I fear she is dying. I am scared and do not know what to do or how to handle it.?


Question:
My mom has had cancer for 10 years and I fear that she is now at the end. Her spirits are not what they use to be. I want to be there for her but am so saddened by her current state. I am not ready to let gon yet.

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I know what you are going through. I can only tell what I did. I tried very hard to be positive for my mom everyday. One day, it just hit me, and I tried to leave the room so she wouldn't see my tears, the anger and frustration I felt having to watch her suffer. She reached out and pulled me back to her and we cried together. after that day, I knew I didn't have to be strong all the time for her, that it was ok for me to have fear and pain. She accepted my feelings just as I had accepted hers. Just be there with your mom, take each moment as it comes.

You will never be totally ready to let go, and you don't have too. Those we love never really leave us, we always have our memories, and the love they gave us in our hearts.

If there is a hospice in your area, contact them. Our hospice workers were a Godsend to us.
Ask God for help. He will help you through it. Seek the LORD


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