am i suffering social anxiety disorder?


Question:
im i having this disordr?i kinda hate myself.i know im a serious person,but i can be a cheerful person most of the time,but i dont know whats wrong wit me,my friends,dont respect me,like they dont care what am i saying.if i talk to them,they just simply nodd thier heads,then dont say anything and then just turn away and talk to someone else.it hurts my feeling.i feel bad about myselt.what a pathetic.am i not mature thats why they dont want to listen to me?or maybe im not funny,i made bad jokes?all of my classmates are cheerful,except me.when i try to be like them,i just cant be...now im thinking bad bout myself.maybe i dont know how to talk to people.whn i was in early teenage,i seldom socialise cuz i kept studying.i spent most of my time raeding.but surely im not a nerd,i like socializing,it just that i didnt have time n now,a cant talk and not fun like any other teenagers of my age.im not fun..im afraid to make friends n be with my classmates cuz im afraid they ll get bored.help me

Answers:
Making friends can be hard but being your self is the key to keeping real friends. You are a person with qualities all your own learn to identify them and love them. Alot of people aren,t funny or as outgoing as some others and alot of people tell rotten jokes(me for one). If you feel down in the dumps alot seek help. Tell your doctor, he or she can help.
Not everyone is the Social Butterfly types that some are-- don,t stress over it. Just do what is fun for YOU.
If socializing is hard for you then practice doing it ,you,ll get better at it if you become comfortable with it. Find your comfort zone . Chill out your cool--your you!!!!
Please ask your parents to help you find a suitable mental health professional. You need to see a therapist or psychiatrist. Us yahoos are not qualified to help you.
However, I will give you some hope. Things do get better with time and work in therapy.

BTW: Yes you are suffering anxiety and depression (not sure if it's social anxiety).
i'm sorry , you are a female and have all these problems?


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