I self harm, but i'm not depressed. is it so wrong?

Question: im 14 and have been harming 4 about 3 or 4 years. i no that what im doing is wrong and that i shouldn't be doing it. i dont do it for attention, i guess i do it because i dont really have another way 2 express myself but im not like depressed or anything. i wanna stop cos i really dont wanna run the risk of my mum finding out, which is the reason talking 2 my mum is TOTALLY out of the question, cos she wood like freak and b like: 'after all i've done for you..' etc etc and we have massive rows which is partially wat starts it agen. my mum and my dad split 7 years ago, and i no she would be devastated if i told her/ she found out. but the last time i was so tired and not thinking straight and i did it on my forearm and i have a noticable scar, this is wat triggered me 2 think about stopping more seriously. 2 people know about wat i do and i dont think they have any issues with it, well i no 1 doesnt cos she did the same thing. and the other is so quiet she wouldnt tell a soul. so wrong?

Answers:
Borderline Personality Disorder.

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You need help. You are depressed even if you don't know it. Does your school have a counselor you can talk to? Can you get counseling through your health insurance?
You need to discuss this with an adut who can help you

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