Why do I feel so bad?
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When that happened,I felt more alone socially. I saw/heard my best friend Brendan being talkative,happy,joking,laughin. with Stefan and Kyle. Wondered why he couldn't be that way with me anymore,how I wanted him to be that way with me again. While at the same time wondered why Stefan and Kyle didn't speak to me either.
I don't know anyone anymore.I felt so bad most of the night,neither one of them said goodnight when they left the game shop (espically Brendan). Why did my friends do this to me ? Why does it hurt so much ?
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I understand you're feeling abandoned and rejected by your friends. It is natural to feel sad when you feel alone. I also understand that you're feeling left out because your other friends seem to be 'in the group' while you're left out of it. This is also something that would make most people feel sad. What I don't know is why this is happening. You didn't say why you hadn't been talking with one of your friends but I'm sure it's just teenage angst. I wouldn't worry, it will probably blow over but if you're really concerned, talk to your best friend and see what the problem is. You may have inadvertently upset someone and they were cross with you, otherwise it just may have been something you misinterpreted. Open the lines of communication and find out what the problem is. I really advise to speak with the person you're closest to and see if there's anything you can do to rectify the situation. They will probably have a lot of respect for you for taking the initiative. Good luck.
the best thing u can do is ask o yo frends what seems to be the problem and y there are avoiding u.i dont think you will lose out anything by doing that provided you haven't been treating yo frends like crap or gossiping behind there back.
This problem with Brendon is really hurting you. The only thing I can tell you is that all of us have some type of trauma or problems. You don't suffer more than other people, we all suffer but in different manners. Everyday of our lives is a mystery, and if we let ourselves shrink in a glass of water we are never going to know or even notice the many opportunities life will bring to us. There is not such thing as friends, as far as I know the only friend that I have is my family and only one best friend, but is a female. Good luck with your problem. If a friend can't be a friend is probably, because he was never meant to be.
Ask them directly why they are excluding you. People are very fickle, anyway.. it hurts so much because you depend on them to make you feel wanted. Try hanging out at a local teen recreation center or talk to other kids at school.. find some new friends or something.
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