why is there so many negative aggressive guys an teenagers out there today?
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They are poorly educated and raised in a society that places more value on material possession and appearance than on positive virtues. They can't control situations with their intellect, so instead they act as a child or animal would,and attempt to control their environment through physical intimidation.
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because thats the trend rap has started
There is so much hate out here in this world ...are kids watch nothing else and hear nothing else thats all they can do is be HATEFULL!
It's pretty much the popular emo culture.... Don't worry, it'll die out soon.
What?
A lot is the media imagery that they see, that being tough is cool and gains repect for being a hard nose.
Some is that they are permitted this aggressive behavior without fear of consequecne for their actions
dere jus plain HATEFUL!!
this is the part of time where you live a lie!!
I guess too much junk food causes this problem
Well if you live in South Florida everyone's like that! The other day I said "Oh what a cute baby!" to some lady with a stroller and she snaps, "Don't you talk to my child!" Okay? I'm ready to move!
I think it's because of the end of the liberation era... not alot of positive things to think about. Everyone before had the mind's true liberation to look forward to.
Unfortunately today both parents have to work and kids are basically raising themselves...they find a home within the gang member community..it's a very sad situation.
Oh no it's not just rap. Have you heard some of these rock bands recently? I love both types of music but you can not blame one and not the other.
Why do people want to blame rap music for everything? It's such a cop out. There's alot of great answers to this question but the ones who want to blame rap makes NO sense. I listen to rap as well as rock and I hear just as much anger and hostility in some rock songs as I do in some rap songs. Hellooo Disturbed, Slipknot, Slayer? Sometimes people are a**holes just to be a**holes.
Look at their food pattern
look at their income
I would be outraged with so much bad stuff in my body and so little wages
and so little education
being fucked up by advertising and fashion industry
It's hard to turn around
a lot of people
have nothing to loose
someone stares, stare back, kick the living $hit out of them, go to jail, oh well, come back couple month later, still have nothing..
ummm... it sounds like you are taking the wrong way perhaps. Don't take this the wrong way but I don't know why anyone would turn that situation into a confrontational one (unless racism or some other inborn factor).
You are probably just overreacting and focusing on one negative outcome.
when you get those thoughts, just think "they dont know me, they have no reason to think bad things about me"
some people just have mean "looks" when really they are harmless.
because many people have not been taught to behave in societal settings. they have been spoiled and pampered, and given everything they demanded by stupid parents. Any psychiatrist will tell you that sociopaths have risen almost double in the past ten years from what it was just 20 years ago per-capita.
territorial thing ... macho thing ...
Where in the world do you live where people eye you like that in a shopping centre? Are you sure you're not instigating those looks by staring at them first?
I live in LA, one of the most gang-infested places in the world (in certain areas), but I never stare back at anyone. Gang members have that about them: It's ingrained in their heads that anyone who looks at them for more than a second is "mad-dogging" them, so naturally they have to say something to the guy (or girl).
Of course, it helps that I live in Santa Monica, not one of the more dangerous areas. But if I do venture out into the dangerous areas, I just mind my own business and don't stare at anyone.
The reason we have this kind of behavior in young persons is that there is no respect for parents, law or society. There is no consequences for for beating someone, or killing or any other crime. Young persons go to court and get a slap on the wrist. Here im Manitoba we had a person get into a fight with another young man and I guess he lost, so he went home got a baseball bat and came back and hit the young man in the back of the head and killed him. HIS PENALTY--four months in jail time served.
I think you are crazy, maybe it's all of that "trying to stay positive" stuff you say you do, that's how people go crazy, they push away their true emotions and bury them in a glossy coat of phony sunshine and lolipops rather than dealing with and coming to a resolution with them. You question just sounds way crazy. You're out shopping and thinking the men's eyes are "boring" into yours and "staring" at you evily, and that you would be hurt if you didn't look into them? That sounds psychotic.
Because they are bored and don't know what else to do with themselves. I grew up in the city, no TV until I was 18, no car -- walked everywhere I wanted to go until I was old enough to take a bus. Grew up with very little, which makes you appreciate any little thing you get. They should get jobs -- and don't let them tell you there aren't any -- anyone who wants to work can find a job. It may not start out at $70k a year, but so many people can't find someone to cut the grass, clear snow, clean out a garage or cellar, etc.
Don't get sucked into that, you sound like a happy peppy person, and that's a good thing. If you start thinking like that then you are just as bad as them, just remember always know your surrounding's and watch your back even if you ain't getting SIZE UP OR DOWN,
Don't worry be happy lol :-)
I was gong to mention the rap music thing and someone already did but theres other reasons to. I have heard older people say that people are just not as cool as they you'sd to be and I think theres truth in that. This thug BS is so stupid its beyond belief, I'm a full grown man and have had to walk away from antagonizing situations from teenagers while just walking to the store.. I know what you mean by that stairing stuff, just ignore it. Paying attention to it won't solve the problem. Try focusing on the women in the mall instead of them. The courts have no pity with violent crime so don;t have a confontation ot try to make a point,
ITS NOT WORTH IT, beleive me I KNOW.
well our mental health system has gotten so bad. With the stresses of life depression in teens has zoomed. hide your heads and have more killings in school. Why doesn't anyone notice? too much money? signed a teen counselor
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