What is wrong with me?

Question:

i have been having troubling dreams about killing and pain, i read horror and such stories all the time. I am depresed and i have seen many people about this, but i never trust them enough to tell them the truth. I wish for death, pain, anything to keep my mind off of the dream that i have day and night. I doesn't matter where i am or what i am doing, even driving, but i can't tell them the truth because i have been hiding it for years and i have learned how to appear to be normal and fine. I stay wake at night to keep away from the dreams, i cry for freadom, but yet i feel that i can't do with out the dreams. Is this just depression or is it something deeper? Please help me!

Answers:
Ok, I see this very well.

Lets start with your dreams. You need to learn to wake up when you are dreaming. It happens maybe 7 times a night. You are only remembering one of them You have many others each night. But being you remember one of them you are able to take control of your dreams. I do it my self. You need to think about what is real and what is not real. When you notice that something is not real you need to notice you are asleep. I can do this and I can change my dreams. I can not stop the dream but I can change how things are playing out. I can take control. If my dream is about a bear in my window I can in my dream close the window and go get a gun that is not really there and wait for the bear to break in and I can shoot him.

Really you can do this.

You need to think about someone you would like to make love to as you are going to sleep and then have a great wet dream if you like. It takes time to learn to make your dream turn out the way you want them to..

If you can notice you are dreaming when you are dreaming you can wake your self up and write down what is going on in the dream. You will see that not all of your dreams are the same. Remember you have many dreams a night.

My ex is a hottie so I try to dream about her.. It Is a lot better then thinking I am in a building 5 floors above the ground with missing boards and might fall and I can see other people on the ground that can't help me. This dream I have had a few times wakes me by yealling out "HEY!! at the people on the ground which wakes up every one in the house.

Try it..

You want help? help yourself!
Talk to a counsellor! there might be a simple reason for your depression. and if it is more serious than that, you can be helped!!!
Open up and be honest. Talk to a psychologist or a doctor quickly!

Stop reading hte horror stories and get yourself some professional help. Get outside, enjoy the fresh air, make new friends and do stuff you enjoy. Try something new and challenging as well

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