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There is this soccer tryout for a rep team this saturday, and im not sure if i should go. There are some people on the team who I dont really like mostly because of their personality, but im sure that if i did try out i would make the team easily. The problem is, I am a minority and I do and did get discriminated upon many times. This makes me very nervous when going to a tryout especially when there are people there who I know will make fun of me behind my back or will say something stupid and make me feel bad. This is my main problem as I am scared of what other people think of me, and therefore i wont play as well or I would become too scared to even show up since i dont want to face these people. Im just really scared of what people say about me and I dont really take it well. Its like i can hear them whispering and laughing behind my back as I play.

So should i go to this tryout and how could i overcome this fear of what people think of me?

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don't pay attention to what other people think, you know they're wrong. if you let it get to you, you'll be giving them just what they want. and about the teammates you don't like, don't pay attention to that, did you know that a lot of the time people work with people they don't really like, for example, in professional sports, police, firefighters, and in the military. it's about what how well they play, not what happened behind the scenes, so go out there and play hard, and here's one more piece of advice, if they talk about you while you're on the field, get angry, harness that anger to play harder.

**** 'em ALL! GO FOR IT !!!!!!!!!!

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