Is it wrong that I.........?

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that i still kinda hate my mom when shes been dead for a year. I mean i hate her as much as i hate my dad, and its there fault for the way i am an my prob's (as in mental probs such as depression and anger) i told my dad that, and he sed even after her death u treat her like this, but its like they sed once u've made a mistake you can't erase it, even if your dead or alive. I dont care is shes dead shes in heaven and im the one still here suffering in earth, and all her sins are just.....erased so why would i feel bad!!!?

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You are probably feeling abandoned and feeling a lot of anger at her for leaving you. That is all a part of the grieving process and eventually you will grow beyond that hon. I lost my dad 6 years ago this January and it took me a long time to come to terms with it but I have. However there are times when I still do miss him but I hold no anger toward him anymore. You will come to a place of peace...it will take awhile but it will happen.
You may want to seek out support groups in your area such as Butterflies, a group for children who have lost a parent..this particular group is run by hospice. There are many others and all age groups. It does help a lot...I am a hospice volunteer and that has helped me immensely also.

well it depends. what did she do

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