snobby friend showed up to my 4th of july party with TWO nannys!?
Question:
\a friend of mine came .not with one! but TWO nannys!
i worked my *** off for this party
cooked cleande set up
bought the beer etc!
what should i have done when she showed up with t TWo
nannys to watch her 1 year old baby!
the nannys ate my food- sat around
did not help me !
they are in all my pictures!
they also were new nannys to my friend !
i am always woried about theft ! form people i dont know to my home!
my friend at the party ---said dont make a scene just let the be
i am realy pissed off how she can show up to my party with two uninvited nanys to watch her one year old baby!
what should i have done!
i dont think i want her here again!
help!signed --pissed off in scarsdale!
Answers:
Well, if she has enough class to return the favor and invite you to a party, I'd show up with your shoe consultant, someone to hold your coat, a mechanic for your car, a coupla bodyguards, and a photographer.
Then you just have to insist that you're uncomfortable going anywhere without them, and you can all party at her place.
I'll go along as your psychic friend.
Other Answers:
Never ever invite her again, and tell her why. Don't be a wuss, just tell her.
Next time send out paper invitations. Make sure your real friends mention they received an invitation in the mail in her presence. When your snobby fiend (no that's not a typo) doesn't get one, maybe she'll get the hint. i wouldnt invite her again and for the record when you have parties that involve drinking you need to tell everyone you invite that there should be no kids at the party, or set a time for little ones to leave so the adults can have fun.
That would have pissed me off to! Don't know what i would have done though,. I don't hang out with snobby people like that, but i would'nt invite her to anymore party's that's for sure!
kudos to you for being a gracious hostess and not making a scene.
i have a friend who has done almost the same thing. she showed up at the door of my one bedroom apt with her 3 kids and a nanny asking if they could "crash" there that night so she could party with her friends in the town that i live in.. i told her no because my place is too small, not kid proofed, and i cannot afford to feed them all. and now when she wants to stay she calls first and understands that my apartment is simply not big enough for her and her entourage.
your "friend" was very rude and inconsiderate. i probably wouldn't invite her to any more parties. and if she asks why she's not invited simply tell her the truth. bringing strangers into your home made you uncomfortable and the extra work she created by bringing uninvited guests put quite a burden on you that you don't wish to repeat.
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