am I lazy because I'm depressed, or am I depressed becuase i'm lazy?
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to be blunt.....your a lazy blob! Snap out of it! find something that requires some hard physical work...then go do it! This will get your blood flowing and, if you are depressed about something, you'll stop thinking about it because you'll be too busy working on your new project-create a goal. if you can't find work to do, then pick a place to run, jog ride a bike or swim to....c'mon! take the step!
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You're depressed cause you look like Elvira and Hellraiser's love child.
It sounds more like you're lethargic becuase you're depressed. Please seek help. You don't have to suffer depression!
I can relate, I've wondered that about myself.
It could be neither one.
If you have no energy, it might be a nutritional thing or anemia or something else medical. Have a doctor check you out for physical reasons before you condemn yourself as lazy or go on an antidepressant you might not need.
Seek professional help from a doctor.
you are spinning.
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You take a few milksugarballs everyday and start cleaning up.
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Try rewarding yourself for getting stuff done. Make a list of things you need to do, then after you check 2-3 off, do something fun, then do 2-3 more things. This way you get stuff done, but it's not all at one time so it's not so boring. :)
Just do it. I will kick your Azz if you don't. There's some motivation for ya. I am a mother of a son and I'll tell you the same thing I tell him. PUT THE GAMECUBE CONTROLLER DOWN AND CLEAN YOUR ROOM OR I'LLPUT IT IN THE TRASH. Just remember, Mom's have to clean the whole house, you just have this one room, clean it or it starts to smell. Love from a mom.
actually you're too young in that situation to feel that way, but in essence you answered your own initial quesation.
Becoming motivated to clean is difficult at any age,,, even for A.R.'s who are compulsive about it.
Without offense, I'd think that EXTRA $$$ would be enough motivation, and then the trickle down effect of living in a clean environment. Beyond that you could consider that HELPING is valid, and perhaps rewards might happen from that?
I realize that I'm a grampa age talking to someone, as I did to my own kids long ago, but I suggest that the alternatives to not keeping your own space in order, might bite you in the butt for the rest of your life. You don't have to be extreme about it, and even lazy can accomplish, in small steps.
The fact that you seemed unaware of a reward is lame. No offense again, but have you ever wondered what you were gonna wear next, if MOM didn't do your laundry? Have you ever been hungry enough, yet lazy enough to wonder WHEN IS DINNER gonna be ready?
Rev. Steven
If you are lazy . this could be changed by your self.
try to chang your self . you will be fine
i would say ure depressed cuz ure lazy.....i guess since its summer and its hot u just feeel like doing nothing but laying down or watching tv
depression can cause extreme fatigue. There are several new meds to help fight depression. Go see a doctor and get some help, tell your mom how you feel, these new meds can really change your life. It's sounds like you very young this should be the best time of your life, don't let depression hold you down. Good luck!
LOOK FOR GOD
When I get depressed,all I want to do is go to bed. I guess it's another way to shut the world out. I read Psalms, that really helps me.
Go where there is some fresh air. (Step outside)
Take about five good deep breaths. Inhale all the way till you can feel the bottom of your lungs fill. Exhale all the way-blow out through your mouth till you feel your stomach cave in.
Five times.
Go back to your work area and pick out the thing you have been dreading to do, and DO IT!
You will feel so good from doing it and getting it out of the way that you will be energized to do the rest.
Then you will feel happy, you will know you weren't depressed, and now you're not lazy!
Good luck.
you are a nothing but a crazy person .
Laziness and depression are two different things. Depression is a disease, laziness is a choice.
Only you can answer this question, based on your motives.
At your age, you're probably "depressed" because you're "lazy." Which really means that the computer is a lot more fun than a dollar or two and your room and your house are clean enough to suit you, so mom and dad are out of luck. This is perfectly normal for teenagers. So don't sweat it.
You're young and school starts in a few weeks. Do whatever you want with your summer vacation. I used to love riding my bike and being around or in water, but I spent a lot of my time indoors reading, too, way back in the Dark Ages before we had computers. I don't know if I envy you or feel sorry for you.
And I can't believe that someone with a photo like "GodsGift2Women" can say anything about such a beautiful young lady's looks. The dude looks like Meatloaf's love child from Mad Max crossbred with Yoko Ono's satanic poodle-groomer during a direct lightning strike. Or a byproduct of Sideshow Bob and Roseanne Arnold. But I'm sure he'll take these as compliments. God loves you, too, uhhh..."god's gift," well, I think He might, anyways.
Peace out.
You sound just like my teen girl (15). I'll tell her to do a certain chore before I get home in 2 or 3 hours and when I get home she is still glued to the computer. I realize it is easy to lose track of time while on the computer but really...she had lots of time to do it. I used to give my daughter $2/day for doing the dishes but she'd wait until midnight to do them so the sinks were always full. Finally I told her it would be $1 each time she did them. So then she did them 2 or 3 times a day. Anyways at least you do some of what you are supposed to do.
Soory i put so much im bored! well i don't really know how to answer or to help you on this one. LOL! But just remember and think of this. SUMMER IS LIKE ALMOST OVER. so maybe you won't be in the same old boring routines of summer after it is over. you will be going back to school so that should keep ya busy LOL! with homework and test and crap "we really need someday" *rolls eyes* but yeah. so i am kinda getting bored this summer and well now that schools closer i don't wanna go!! I have like 2 or 3 weeks left b4 school! but so i haven't been depressed at all this summer but i know i have not been the happiest. but i hope when school comes that will all change. HOPING!! so good luck! hey suggestion if you luv music as much as me try and pick up a guitar or bass (i am trying to teach myself bass heehee) (thats if you don't play already) or you can if you luv music as much as me you can channel all that "depression boredom laziness" all into wonderful song lyrics! yep like me! LOL! oh bout the lazy part of the question. yeah i had to clean today too. but don't get down on yourself for being lazy. cuz remeber school work is real work you are just taking a break (summer break....hello...)and well when school work comes you won't be lazy then hopefully.
i so know what you mean i'm exactly the same exept for 1 thing i've been this way for as long as i can remember i've been this way now i'm 14 and i still havnt changed but if you find a soloution let me know my addy is : elf4chocolate@yahoo.co.uk
im curently like u.
I guess its both ways. They induce each other. when u are lazy, u become depress den u become lazier...den more depress and even more lazier...
till u break down one day. den u will get up again.
depression can leave you very unmotivated to do things all you want to do is lay around and sleep alot. you need to break the cycle have you talked to a trusted friend/couselor? alot of times talking it out with a person one on one helps. also getting out of the house for awhile and walking will help. do something good for yourself as well take care!
It's time to go fishing and head donw to the bait shop and buy some nice juicy Nightcrawlers in soft dirt.
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