I'm addicted to my ex boyfriend?

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I was controlled for 3 years by a sociopath and he randomly comes in my life to screw with my head. I'm addicted to his person and I'm afraid I'll hurt my current boyfriend. I've discussed with psychologist and my BF now but this person still has a hold on me. Can someone please help me to get rid of my addiction? He recently asked me to meet him in a hotel and to be his slave for the night and I used to be abused by him in that way! I told him to f*** Off but why do I feel like I did something wrong.

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Sounds like you know what you have to do. Do it. Look up Sociopath honies, its not so addictive to others. You feel as if you did something wrong because you still have feelings for him and feel you've hurt him. Wake up and smell the blood on the walls honey (yours). If he is a true sociopath, your feelings mean nothing to him, which sounds right if he is asking you to be his slave. Women seem to have this thing about not wanting to hurt people, and its because they are socialized from the beginning to want to not do. "Girls are nice", "Sugar and spice, everything nice". Screw that babe. You feel "wrong" because you were raised and taught by society that girls are to be pleasing, loving, caring nurturers and to put others feelings above theirs. That's great and altruistic and all, but when it comes down to your very LIFE that is very very likely at stake, don't be a fool. To get rid of that "addiction" is to realize that you are worth more than being a slave to someone else's will. He will manipulate you until he decides he is done with you in which case he will either dump you and leave you wondering for REAL "what did I do wrong", or worse case, as he gets more attached to you, stalk you and when you finally wake up and see the blood on the walls and take you out with an axe one stormy summer night. What are you thinking?! Stop feeling like his feelings are more important than yours. You are worth it.

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You're nuts?

Get a day job Ok from experience i know that alot of men are munipulative bastards!! U feel bad cos your x bf has conditioned you in this way, you feel in control by being controlled. Truth is hun that the man who abused you is very empty and sad and fills this by dominating you and messing your mind. Good for you telling him to **** off!! Now the next step is to keep saying this and gain independance, your ex thinks he can wisk you away, but when he sees you have moved on he will realise how pathtic he is and what an angel you are. GOOD LUCK!! p.s get family and friends to back you.

go to see a hipnotherapist to see where does all that starts

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