my wife donot want stay with us .what can do?

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actualy we married 6 month back , love marriage, at starting see was right but after two month see was saying here heart not co-operate to you, i asked question but see cound not saying any thing ,please give advise

Answers:
Go to a marriage counselor.

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if you ask her questions and shes not responding theres nothing you can do. if you feel you have done everything possible and there is still no change in her behavior you have to let her go. there is no hope in a relationship when you are the only one trying, speaking from experience, you might as well let her go before matters get worse.a child if not already gets involved, she has already made up her mind

I am sorry things are not working out in your marriage but if shes unwilling to try to work thru this then all you can do is give her space,Maybe she will realize then that she still loves you or maybe she will want a divorce,but you cant force someone to stay with you. Good luck -I will be hoping for the best for you.

if you love something set it free if it comes back to you its yours, if it don,t it never was

I'm sorry to hear you're going through a tough time. It's not easy to make a marriage work, even a love marriage, there are so many everyday things to learn and work at as a couple, it can be so confusing and scary, and its important to talk and understand each other's needs. It sounds like your wife is shy or scared about talking to you about something. Be gentle and patient with her, and let her know that you are willing to be a kind supportive husband. I think it would be good for her to talk to someone, like a counselor. If you are in India try contacting one of the NGOs as they might guide you to good counseling services (there are some centres that offer free counseling). (I have a list of some NGOs on my website's Directory page, and have posted the link below). Let her talk to a woman rather than a man, she will be more comfortable with that, and don't sit with her while she talks, or even ask her what she talked about, afterwards. There must be something in her heart that she needs to let out, when the time is right, she will tell you herself. It could be a serious issue but it could also be something like she misses her family or doesn't know how to cope with the new lifestyle and role of being a wife. Talking to a counselor will help her to express her feelings and find some solutions. Just encourage her with kind words, don't tell her what she "should" do, just support her as you can and see if that makes a difference. Good luck and I hope things work out for you both.
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