please help me. problems are esculating at the mo. my husband is injecting a coctail of coke + heroin paranoid
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First of all, you can leave him save yourself offer rehab treatment, but if he does not want help he is only going to bring you down. I am a recovering drug addict, there is help out there but you have to want it, and it not easy. Don't make it easy for your husband. You have to save your own life before you can save someone elses.
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yes you can help him check him in to rehab
you say " i know i can't help him" that is your problem , of course you can Seek professional help NOW. I don't think this is a problem you can solve on your own.
Good luck.
Not joking, but if he is doing that, you won't have a problem or a husband for long. Speed-balling is a definite killer.
Go to the YWCA or some women's shelter or something like that. Your husband is out of control and will turn on you. You need to just disappear from his life.
Seek help for yourself first, and then, from a distance and without his knowing, seek it for him.
Here are your options:
Rehab, Detox, NA,or wait for him to kill himself, which will happen if he continues with this behavior.
My husband was doing the exact same stuff back in 1998 and I left him. I told him I couldn't be with him till he quit drugs. It took seven years before he quit. When he got sober, I took him back and things are going much better. I don't believe we are obligated to stay with someone while they insist on destructive behaviour, especially if there are children in the house. GET HIM SOME PROFESSIONAL HELP FAST.
God, I hope there are no children in this house? Things are going to get real crazy when he runs out of the Coke, maybe the H will help him come down? This requires professional help like ASAP. Call N/A, AA or a treatment center.. Al anon too! He has to want to quit this behavior, you can't fix him. In case of reaction? What exactly are you going to do if he OD'S?,
well i belive u shoul get some help.call somebody, do something shuut he is not eting candies.is coke + heroin he is going to die.wake up
You can't handle this alone that is the first thing that you have to realize. I been there with my oldest son and the hardest thing as a love one it is hard for us to sit back and watch this. But for me I had to stop this behavior because I loved him and wanted to see him away from the mess. I called around asked for numbers for counselors, drug treatments, anything to help my son. Unforntually he got in trouble with the law before we got him the help and he is sitting in jail right now. So my advice is get him the help he needs now. You can call counselors and they will advice you what is available to you in your area. I pray that everything works out for you. REHAB REHAB REHAB!!
Tell him to get help or you're going to leave.
You can get him some help. Do Not think he is going to get any better.
You can get in touch with an Narcotics Anonymous group in your area and they can help you with different ways to admit him into a hospital program.
Also your local mental health agency can give you some assistance with this.
I do know you can also call the police and report his behavior they have been know to provide assistance in placing individuals into programs also without charges having to be placed on him.
Good luck Please for your own safety and sanity, find a place to go and get out of your situation.
Your husband is addicted to drugs and you cannot help him. It is time to save yourself and protect yourself from his sickness.
Leave, don't turn back, don't stop. Please save yourself. There are womens shelters, homeless shelters and many resources to help you. call the cops and have him locked up!
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