How do I tell this guy off?
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Just be honest if your not ready to a relationship just tell him. It will hurt him a little but isn't it better to tell him now rather then wait for him to find out later.
There is NO shame in not being ready for a relationship, if he likes you then he will wait, until then he will be happy to be your friend. I was in the same situation just last week I feel completly in love with this guy, and then he told me he was the same age as my brother. I feel bad about hurting his feelings but he understands that I'm not ready and to be honest he wasn't either.
Don't beat yourselve up about it. Remember your only a kid once enjoy the time you have while you have it. There is NO shame in being ready for stuff like this. He will understand but you do have to tell him other wise he will find out from someone else.
Hope this is helpful
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he sent you some pictures and now you don't like him? You are so shallow. Tell him he deserves better than you because you are a complete jerk. And you SHOULD feel bad.
Why would you want to "tell him off??" Just let the talking slow down some, and he'll get the hint.. Tell him your parents wont let you date anyone and that maybe you guys can hook up in a couple of years. Just dont let him see you dating another guy for a couple of weeks.
Well, he will more than likely know that it's because of his looks no matter what excuse you give. If you can't be with him because of his looks.you NEVER loved him. Just be honest with him and tell him you aren't physically attracted to him. You at least owe him the truth.
well dont be so shallow, if you fell in love w/ him once than im sure tahn u can fall in love w/ him again, knowing what he looks like. beautys only skin deep Do you have to see him in person? Then just make something up. It's not you it's me, I met someone else, I'm going through some things right now, I need to concentrate on school more, etc.
Otherwise, I'd just send him a quick email saying you're moving on for personal reasons and block his email.
If you were in love with this person then you wouldnt care what he looked like.. Obviously someone who makes you extremely happy and cares for you needs to also posess great looks. What are you scared of? Introducing a not so attractive person to your friends/family? if your friends hack out on you because he isnt your normal good looking guy.. They are not true friends are they? Tell him you aren't interested anymore. Tell him that he should seek his experiences, and you should seek yours.
What did the pictures have to do with it, or is it just a coincidental timing?
Don't tell him off at all. Just say you didn't appreciate receiving the photos, for whatever reason you have. For example, "I really didn't appreciate receiving those photos you sent they were just way inappropriate for where we are in our friendship. I like you and all as a friend, but if you ever thought we might develop something more, well, I'm afraid It's not going to happen now."
This will let him know how he blew it, which is always helpful. It also lets you get your point across w/o being total obnoxious.
well thomas, sounds like you're in a bind here.you're in love with a guy from school that you haven't seen and don't know and now don't like because of the pictures.I'd say you should just be honest, say I saw the pictures and I realized that I was not as attractive as you are and that I am shallow and mean spirited and I think we should move on because you deserve a person who is kind and attractive and I am not..solves it! if you no longer like him, it shouldnt matter howq you tell him to buzz off. being honest is the best way. he will get over it, but either way he is going to be hurt because you have already lost interest in him w/o giving him much of a chance.. just tell him that you are really not interested anymore or something, but hhe is going to be hurt reguardless.
Yeah, you are pretty shallow. It's true everyone must be physically attracted to someone before they start liking the person, but YOU already liked this person for who he is in the inside. You should have asked for a pic first and then learned more about him because you were interested.not the other way around.
I hope he dumps you.
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