A little advice from the 30 and above crowd?
Question:
Seriously though, this has been a real problem for me and I just keep getting more and more depressed. I guess that I saw myself in a different place in life by the time I was 30 and now its 5 days away and I am so not in that place.
Answers:
Look at it like this, with age comes more grace, beauty, intellect, and maturity. You also have a better respect and understanding of things that those younger than us do not. But what's more important is that you have a better idea of what you want from life and how to go about getting it, and lets not forget the fact that now you can be far more devious than other and know how to get away with things that they can. Adding the years to us can not be helped. If you look at it with a positive outlook, and another period of your life for a new adventure and fun. Then you are on your way to even better things. Enjoy the new time of your life, 30 is only the beginning of better and more fun times. Have a great birthday, do something devious for fun and have some one else take the blame. Best wishes to you.
Other Answers:
Being 30 isn't the end of the world dear. You know what you have to do to reach your goals, so just do it.there's still time.
i never got to where i wanted to be by 30 either.. now im 33 and still not there.
But me i actually feel healthier and more alive now than i did when i was in my 20's with the exception of maybe when i was 21 - 22
Dont let it get you down.. its just another year, lighten up and have fun
I think I've dated you. Relax, it's no big deal. Relax. Enjoy life and smile. There is no guarantee that there will be an other. Take care of your self and try something new. Like enjoying a sunrise or watching old cartoons with the volume off & the radio on.
You still have lots of productive life left. Don't waste that by pining over by-gones. If you are not where you thought you would or should be, take action NOW!! Don't wait another 5 days!
Age is all mental. Go have fun, throw a party, toast a friendship!
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