Are men who aren't "gettin any" more likely to sexually abuse a child than those whose sex lives are full?
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They are monsters and nothing can be said to justify their actions. But men exploit vulnerability that they see in Children and would have to be pretty sick and messed up to begin with to sexually abuse a child, but often alot has to do with sexual frustration, yes deprivation is more likely to make them abuse children (because children are there, ready and easy to coerce. But it is not the sole determining factor which compels a man to become a monster and molest a child, it is a combination of familial, psychological and environmental factors - but ultimately they made that decision and are sick people.
Also a life of abuse themselves has a deep impact on their mind. But ultimately they are monsters sculpted through personal experiences, society, underlying problems, an absence of morality and a lack of control over their primal urges. When I say they are sick I do not just mean that they are 'wrong' and 'freaks' I mean their mind is diseased and pedophilia should be classed as a disorder (Although it probably isn't because people do not want child molestation to be justifiable by a medical condition beyond the patients control!) The same way crimes and murder are also dismissed if a person pleads 'insanity'.
They are mentally ill, they could have girlfriends, even a wife and kids - and still rape their daughters or sons (most rapes are commited by people closely related to the victim).
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No I don't think so. A child molester will do his wife and still be a molester.
i agree...a person not getting any doesn't mean he will be a child molester....
it has nothing to do with getting lot of sex or no sex... these kind of people are mentally sick...its a psychological disorder which should be treated accordingly... they are not monsters but patients.. who have gone thru major emotional upheaveals in life..
Pedophilia is a mental disorder that can't be cured and can't be brought on by lack of sex. It's hard-wired into the brain, no matter what the circumstances are.
Sick men (or women, as this question completely ignores child molesting women) are not a product of sexual deprivation. No sane person would consider a child a sexual partner, under any circumstance.
majority of abusers have been abused in some way or other, they think what they are doing is ok... sick i know but thats the truth of it
nope.. that's not true.. most of the child moslesters are married or have other forms of sex life..
it's just that they are sick to the core..
Men who abuse anyone are full of hate, anger, and feel inferior in their ability to be a real man. They pick on the weak, small, and those they control because they can until someone has the courage to report them to the Police or a trusted friend.
This man could be in a very sexual relationship and still have a sick need to over-power and hurt. That is why a lot of wives refuse to accept that her man could behave this way. It is not her fault for he needs a lot of councelling and therapy if not solid jail time.
Child molesters are not lacking for sexual pleasures, it is power they are seeking. It is a sickness. It is shameful that anyone would look at a child and want to have sex with it. Oh I want to vomit at the thought. Men like this aren't men they are predators and need to be shipped to another planet. Any man that have sex with a child for any reason is not a man, he is a sick twisted freak, that should be tortured and killed.
No I don't believe that. I don't know if you saw Dateline when they were picking up the predators (I'm sure you did or at least heard about it). The majority of the men were happily married and all. Yes, I realize that doesn't mean they have a satisfying sex life. Let's face it, over quite a few years, sex does slow down some in any marriage - at least some. I truly believe these people are sick in some form or another - either from being abused themselves as children or somehow needed the "control" over someone. Who better to get control of than a child. I mean - it's like rape also. Rape (they say) isn't even about sex -- it's about control (and sometimes rage). I tend to disagree with it. I think it's sad because a lot of Catholic priests seemed to turn into child predators themselves which may make you believe that statement to a degree. But if a Catholic priest has it in him to not marry and have relations with a woman, he is chosing that profession. I still think they had issues also -- the ones who did it and gave the rest a bad name for it.
That is a good question, deserving of a proper answer, so I will defer to a psychologist. However, I would like to know the answer, if you do get a psychologist to answer it. I do believe that child molesters and rapist have a mental problem, that should be addressed and corrected before they become violent, but how does anyone know who is going to be one. Wow, If only we could find out before anyone is hurt. Then again, if it is a mental condition then they could claim they were made that way just like Homosexuals. Too much for the untrained mind to think about.
No - not one little bit. Give me such a break - that would the be excuse an abuser would use wouldn't it? But I think that perverts who go to XXX bookstores, shops and bars and online who train their minds to think sick thoughts about children by looking at filthy garbage will turn their minds into perverted convoluted trash bins. Whatever you feed your brain is what you will think about and act on. You need a cause to live for something that is so serious and dramatic that is positive and good for you that sexual pleasure is just a drop in the bucket of life and not your all in all sustaining factor. What these "monsters" need to do is get some serious therapy and perhaps drugs that can slow down their sexual desire so that they have worked so hard to focus on constantly and can focus on something else and retrain their brain to be able to do other things. Unfortunately, X rated pictures are retained in the brain permanently as it were and it's very difficult to retrain your brain to think clean when a person infiltrates their minds with that stuff for years and years. Such an individual needs a total life transformation and someone to remove these desires along with accountability to start making better choices and the strength of character to remove all traces of the magazines, books etc from their lives and go ahead and burn it all and throw out the computer if necessary. Honestly, I feel bad for these people - most of them were introduced to the filth as young children, were abused themselves and that is how they got a taste of the sick and perverted. I can't explain why some people would just flee from it and others are drawn to it - that I have no clue as to why. If a guy is single and involved in this lifestyle - what woman in her right mind - knowing this - would have sex with him unless she too was a sick pervert?
A child molester has an unfilled desire and it has nothing at all to do with lacking sex. It is an infatuation with children or the most part. That is the thrill of the entire act and it stems from a lot of factors in this individuals life and does not necessarily mean he or she (the molester) was raped or molested. It is a mental disorder that was incorporated from a chemical imbalance and generally stays with them all of their lives, and it is the person you least expect. When the molester is caught they are subjected to intense therapy and they actually admit their need for having this type of relations with children. This is obviously not a healthy situation but I was trained by the Archdioceses at ADO online because anyone around or working near children must attend and be certified before they can do so. This program was very disturbing but taught me a lot about people who molest children.
Please do not misunderstand a horny man and a child molester, you could save a child from being molested or hurt.
i knew a guy who could have almost any women he wanted,and did have sex with many of them constantly. this did nothing to curve his appetite to molest little girls. i on the other hand went from having a very healthy sex life to having no sex at all for more than three years and never ever had any desire to have sex with a child. it has to be a sickness.
I think they are. Children are more, of an easier target. That is why you see most child molestors are single or divorced.
Well being sexually abused in my teens it's a difficult question to answer. Maybe they were in the past abused themselves and so the cycle just continues, unless they seek out some professional help, the'll continue on this path. Plus I think that there is no real cure to stop or prevent them from continuing the abuse.
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