Part Two.My boyfriend got depressed again..goes w/ the first ? but it wont let me add more details.?


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He got depressed again.I took all his blades away.He didnt mind or put argue or anything.then tonight he started punching himself in the face.hard..near one of his eyes its bruised and slightly swollen.on the other, his knuckle imprints..I know he needs theropy.but how do we get it when were just 17, without involving his parents? Someone please.my email is moonlesswaltz@yahoo.com if you dont feel like posting or have websites or info, or just post it.eitehr way.Im worried..He seems to get derpressed every night baout something, rages, crys, then hes ok again.Hes admitted he wants help, but neither of us know how to go about it.

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I don't know his parents or how they would react, but if they aren't mean or abusive or anything,then the best thing you can do is let them know. If you love him then help him, Parents are sometimes the best help. Good luck to you.

-Ignore the answer below me,,,,she is just regretting her own life, it has nothing to do with you. Can you please explain why you don't want to tell his parents? Could you two talke to your parents? I just left a longer Answer on your other question.

- This is a serious ordeal and you asked the questions two days go the first time. You two need to take action on this. As i mention in my other answer. You need to make an appointment at your local clinic with a Dr. and talk with him/her. They will be able to point the two of you in the right direction. Please do this asap. You both should go and you should both attend some of the cousuealing together.

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Unless they're just mean or abusive, get his parents involved. Or get a professional involved, like a school counselor. If he is suicidal, his parents will probably be informed. It'd be silly of you to take full responsibility for this problem and try to solve it on your own. He needs serious help and you being supportive won't be enough.

Run, Run, Run away from that freak!!
It is the best thing for him. You are enabling this behavior by sympathizing and comforting him. What he needs is some tough love. He needs to get his act together, on his own, like a big boy, then think about having a relationship with you.
You need to get yourself right before you have a relationship with him. Seek counseling for yourself before you try to help anyone else.
This is going to be a disaster, trust me, you are better off looking somewhere else. What are you going to do when he starts beating you up? Yes, it's possible, he is unstable and probably insane. What are you going to do if he threatens suicide? Don't cave and mother him, he had a mom, he needs to out grow his babyish behavior and be a man for a change.
Look in the yellow pages for psychiatrists. You both need one badly.
Please don't get pregnant, that won't solve anything, it will just give him another hostage when he finally goes postal, and he will, eventually. No kid should have to suffer that. And what if this is genetic, you will have screwed your kid, just by giving birth.




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