are my friends really my friends?
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Dear, I think at your age you can know with whom you can confide. A real friend will be someone (girl or boy) that you can confide in and trust to keep it to themselves. IF you don't feel right about trusting someone, do not tell them anything that you would not want spread all over school or town.
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yes it's normal and no they are not really your friends. high school sucks. girls are beotches. try to stay afloat. hey, ya only got 3 more years.
you should try and make new friends being in high school isn't easy yep, that's normal. Keep in mind the are thinking about themselves too. So try to express more of an interest in them, and see if they start to be genuine with you.
If not, venture out and express interest in people. It's the quickest way to friendship.
Yes. i think. I'm a bit like that too. some people have problems opening themselves. The only person I'm absolutely sure i can trust is a friend i have for 13 years. and even then , there are some thing that i am in doubt. I also have that problem of thinking some of my friends will not care about my problems. Do you care about your friends problems? do you listen to them when they are sad? If you do, they will listen to you too. don't be afrais of trusting to much,,,
Ur in the 9th grade, people will come in and out of ur life. I dont have the same friends from the 9th grade. It is ok not to have a lot of friends. Find friends that are like u, respect, care about, u and make u feel good about their friend. Also think of what truly makes a friend for you. Then ull know what kind of people u want to be friends with. Im sure ur a great friend. Hang in there. :) hey, hate to put it, but this is a natural thing of people in society these days. I have been in your shoes before and many of times and I am passed the high school level. Its hard to find friends, yes, but when you do find them, they will be there for you. If need to have someone to talk to, try talking to someone you never really talked to, or to someone who u think will not or haven't hurt you in any way. look at their surrondings and how they might act with certain people and situations..Its hard i know, but continue being strong..i'll be ur friend if you need someone to listen..good luck!!
I felt that way many of times, sometimes it's so bad I feel I hate the people I really love. I know how you feel though, well, ask yourself how do they treat you? Chances are if you have a bad feeling about them, they probably aren't really your friends! It happened to me, I had a bad vibe about one of my "friends" but I let it go, next thing you know, she tried to get me put in jail over something I did not do!! Just trust your instincts, and have a good judge of character! I wish you luck!
well alot of the time for girls I think it is normal. They hang out with u just for something to do but when they find something better to do they will just go and do that and most of the time not ask u to even come along. I've seen it happen alot and I bet it makes u feel lower than dirt. But then later when they get board with what they were doing they'll come back to u. Those r the kind of people that you shouldn't hang around with (beacuse their shallow). I found this out the hard way in elementary school. Ever since then I decided that having one good friend is better that having 100 shallow feiends. But if you can get about 10 really good friends then your set for life but you can always add more. But like I said earlier that one good friend (if he/she is a really good friend) can also set you for life.
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