why are parents so demanding?

Question:

when you have a baby,they tell you how to manage him or your life,they tell you to visit them more often,they tell you that they feel sorry for your baby because he has no friends and so they make you feel bad,they tell you to clean your house up when your sick or exhausted/tired/relaxing,i mean my mother cleant my house up and my dad told me i should do it,i been sick for 5 days already told them,still he comes and bugs me about it.They still talk to me like im a little child and still under there roof,ive been with my partner for a year now,but my parents ring me up random times telling me this and that,and its making me really upset,so my mum tells my family how im not there looking after my kid..shiit this is all stressful,and my parents are really getting on my nerves....................my sons gone for the week!!and its horrifying they make me look like im a bad mum...:(:( theres no support there..I need advice.

Answers:
It is our job to be demanding....afterall, we want you to grow up to be the best you can be.

It could be for a couple of reasons... 1- they do care and want to help you help yourself by giving so called advice and 2- I'm 31 and my parents are coming up to their 60's and I'm always told... you don't know how lucky you are.... in my day.blah blah blah, I think they have a thought that if they could run a household with no money 3o mins sleep and 121 thousand kids and still tidy up and keep clean why can't we? Fact is... I am not you... I'm brought up in a world where we have mod cons for a reason and yes we have gotten a bit lazy.... that's why.

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