how to reject a friend without loosing him..?


Question:
we are very good friends but 2 days ago he started acting unusual..hugging me all the time and similar.maybe it's nothing or he just feels lonely, but i want him to know that we will always be just friends

Answers:
You already lost him. Once you tell him no, hes gonna either be ashamed or pissed off and stop talking to you. Sorry.

Other Answers:
dont hug him back

Tell him flat out. There really is no other way. Good luck. let him down easy.really easy


just let him know that up-front. keep saying "you're such a great friend." or use the word "buddy" a lot.


no no no keep hugging him hun!
but if theres a time that he asks you out or something
gently explain to him why u want to just be friends
and how you are only doing this to keep your friendship alive

can always say something like i'm so glad were friends i can get a mans opinion on the guys i like. he should get the clue. tell him u just found out u had herpes..haha.he wont bother u anymore bout yours/his possible romantic relationship and he'll stick to being ur friend..ha


its up to him , if he loves u he'll love u as a friend too


If he is your true friend then he would have the resepct to not do the things that he is doing. if he is making you feel uncomfertable tell him off.

just do what you normally do. and when he tells you he likes you, then you can say that you only want to be friends with him. good luck.guys are friends with girls mostly to get into thier pants. its a fact of nature. that said, some guys will still want to be around if you tell them you're not interested. that guy is the one you should be dating by the way. you'll learn this one day and life will be better.


next time that happens push him off of you & tell him. no !
when he says "what?!" tell him that you don't feel comfortable huging & that your just friends. He needs the message loud & clear to avoid a "maybe i can win her over phase" (if he does like you, like you ).

if he is a real friend he would apolgize, probably feel alittle stupid & still be your friend with out any further occurance.

if not he probably was not as good as a friend as you thought

hope this helps,

ss




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