Why life is not so pleasant?

Question: Whatever i do turns out to be a failure one no matter how much effort i take.My wishes never came true.No one gives importance to me and i am always neglected by other even by my family members.Everyone gives more importance to my sister.I am not saying this out of jealous on her.Every good thing happens only to her and what i have experienced so far is only miseries.My parents often say to me that i am a useless girl and they will be very happy if i die.
what should i do?

Answers:
What ?!! Your parents say you are useless and they will be happy if you die ?!! I wish you said your age. You should be in a loving and supportive home with loving parents. If I were you, I would find a crisis hotline, or a mental healthy facility near where you live. There are many in the community that are free of charge. The way you are being treated is absolutely terrible and has nothing to do with you. Shame on your parents !!! .. Talk with your best friends about this and find a way to get help and support. God Bless You, and best of luck, let us know when things get better .. okay? Remember, no one else like you has ever been born before, nor will there ever be another person like you born in the future. YOU ARE SPECIAL. Hang in there. :)

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My best advice to you is to love yourself and validate yourself before looking for others to validate you. You are NOT a failure, you are NOT unimportant. If you were, you wouldn't be seeking a solution to this malady. You need to stop looking for others, i.e., your parents, your sister, other family members, friends etc., for validation. Validate yourself, you are a wonderful person. You are NOT useless and if you died, the world would be very empty. Your parents sound like very toxic people, you would be wise to finish school (if you are still in school) and make a life for yourself.

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