Im going to destoy myself tonight. Any ideas of how I may do this? Sould I ??
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yeah ive said that same thing. i always feel like why put up with this world when you could just be gone? yeah i wish i had answers for you but i guess i dont. no one is forcing you to live the life you do. just like no ones forcing me to live a life that seems to get worse each day. me and you seem alike. and i want help just like you do (or you wouldnt be asking this question right?)yeah i might even go sign up for couseling someday. maybe you should do that before me!.yeah but i hope you dont rid yourself from the world. from one messed up kid to another. you say your 20? and im only 17 goin on 18 soon pathetic huh? well yeah i guess i answered your question as best as i could. hope i helped a little. isnt it just a little nice to know that your not the only one that feels like this?yeah check ya later.
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RELAX. Your not a joke. NO one is a joke. Everyone has something to offer, and everyone freaks out every once in a while. 20 was a realy shitty year for me, really shitty. but guess what? 21 has been GREAT. Everything passes, everything. For every up there is a down, and for every down there is an up so just hang in there, and try not to use any substances if you know what i mean, for a while.
Dont' destroy yourself either. There is no point in that, in the end you will still be picking up the pieces in this life or the next, so you might as well just stay in this life.
I don't think you want to die. I think that you want some happiness and some reasons to make like worthwhile. I mean try a hobby, get a girlfriend, talk to everybody close to you, even see a psychiatrist/pharmiceuticals, or therapist. Don't brood or whine, thats not good, just wait and embark on a quest to improve life. ITs about exploration.
You shouldn't destroy yourself. You are NOT a collosal joke. If someone hates you for the way you are, that's their problem. Leave them and move on. Before you get set on this, think about others. I know that it might be hard to believe that people will miss you, but they will. They'll miss you a lot and they'll hate themselves and be confused about what went on. We all have dark periods in our life, some people go through darker ones than others, but it's what tests us and shows us how strong we are. Strength is like courage. It's not about wether or not you flinch, cry, are scared as hell, or feel like you can't go on. It's about continuing and triumphing over those feelings and other adversaries. Don't rid the world of yourself. Someone will be worse off without you and that's going to be someone you care about. Sit down and wait this out. Sooner or later the clouds over head will disappear and like Motely Crue said in "Home Sweet Home": Just when things went right, doesn't mean they were always wrong.
Peace & Best be with you
That's terrible you feel that way, you shouldn't destroy yourself or cause any harm to yourself. I'm assuming by your last sentence your gay, so what a lot of my friends are. Yeah people are always going to be hating on other people about something either because your gay, fat, to skinny, wrong color of skin. don't have the best clothes to wear ect.... But those people are just ignorant and probably really insecure about themselves. I'm sure your a really great person Your shouldn't worry about what other people think. I don't really know what I can do to help you because I don't know your whole situation but, I can listen if you need someone to talk to. There are people in the world who aren't shallow and really do care. Just don't give up. If you've hit the bottom the only way you can go is up.
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I read your questions and answers. I found most of your advice to be great so I think your smart. A smart person like you should do the right thing. Witch is to seek help before you make the "mistake" the pain you will cause others will be just as bad as the pain you might have right now... Would you want to give it to other people.
Its not about other people though its about you. I find nothing wrong with gays. I think you should live longer then 20 give life more of a chance. Some people kill them self's to rid there pain and some people do it to well how can I say it to punish others.
I suggest you speak with someone you trust. If you trust no one then speak to anyone. Because if your going to kill yourself anyhow why would talking to someone make it worse?
Good luck. I hope to see your posts around here more often.
Who cares? Quit whining and do it. Yes, you should off yourself.Hurry, before you whimp out.
Please don't hurt yourself- it's not what you really want. What you want and need is someone to help you with the unbearable pain you're in. It sounds to me that you are probably very depressed. Have you seen a therapist or been through a psychological evaluation? Depression has different forms and can be treated. You can live a happy life. You are so young, you have a lot of life to live. I am not sure, but I am wondering if you are having difficulty accepting your sexual orientation. If you are, it's not a sin, that is absolute BS. You were born that way and it's not a choice. Please talk to someone, call a crisis hot line- you don't even have to give them your real name. I have been there, alone, depressed and scared. Please call a suicide hot line. Don't take a permanent solution for a problem you can get help with. Don't put yourself down, you are not a colossal joke. I beg you to please get help and not give up. You really are not alone. You should know this and if you don't believe it, look at the responses you are getting from people who are willing to reach out to a stranger. Make that call. Don't listen to that unsympathetic uninformed person that's saying "do it." They are either trying reverse psychology on you, which is not an appropriate technique, or they not a very sensitive person, in which case they have their own problems to deal with.
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You've been obsessing with this same type of question for the last couple weeks. You need to decide to be yourself and let people know what your all about and be truthful (or) keep your gay secret and stop whining...like anyone would really care (or) move on and know that you'll get stronger with age and more maturity. Twenty is still young and your brain probably isn't fully formed to handle stress well yet.....you might want to wait before destroying yourself (like you are really serious).
You need to learn to like yourself rather than fret about what "your dreamguy" will say to you. Fight your depression by concentrating on a healthy lifestyle, for example, working out an hour a day, go for walks/rides and eating mostly protein and low sugars/carbs. . Life is relatively short .....you can't gain any more years to your life by worrying, anyways. Learn to stop putting yourself in the position of depending on people for your happiness. **ck them!! and move on!
Hey, my life sucks to. Believe me, everyone's life will suck too sooner or later. Then, it'll get back to normal. Or maybe after u've survive this pahse of your life, u'll be a better person than u ever thought u could be. It's just the matter of handling that time of your life and get through it.
The good news about being in a crappy place is that it is so bad,it can only get better. As you get older,you get perspective,in other words,you can xompare different crappy times and see which was worse. Suck it up and just keep going,you will be in a better place eventually.
Life really does suck sometimes, but tomorrow is another day, and you should be hear to see it!! your dying, so take each day like it is your last,enjoy your family and freinds as much as they enjoy you. Take Care, Enjoy the Afterlife, might see you there some day soon
your fucked.
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