Seriously, what is wrong with me? (read details, please)?
Question:
I really love my new boyfriend and I'm waiting for him to ask me to move in with him so I won't have to live where I am now.
The problem started when my ex recently met some other girl on the internet and now he's always on the phone with her and I don't know why I'm jealous because I don't want to be with my ex anymore. But he's always on the phone with her and for some reason it bothers me and I'm overcome with the urge to beat him until he falls into a coma and smash his cell phone into little pieces.
Like I said, I don't want him anymore, so what's wrong with me?
Answers:
I thought I was the only person alive living with their ex. You have the mom there too. WOW.
You may not want him but still in your heart you want to hurt him for finding someone to have a relationship with. this is normal because you see him with something you deeply desire also.
Its not that you actually still have feelings for him really. Its just you want what he has, and that's happiness!
Its hard, i know, but be happy for him and the good karma will come back to you! promise! You won't be lonely for long!
Other Answers:
Please call the Jerry Springer show.
you are jealous because your man doesn't have as much time to spend with you as your ex has to spend on his new girlfriend LMAO* Girl.you need to get out of his house!
you really need to move out and find another place to live
it will drive you crazy staying in the same house with him
You need to get out of his house. You cant find a friend who will rent you a bedroom? We separated in December after 10 years of marriage and even today when he came over the see the kids, he spoke about a girl he works with and I felt really jealous! I questioned myself but couldn't find an answer. Even though he is not even seeing this person, just the mention of another woman's name turns me green! Just nature I suppose.
You just realize that you are missing your boyfriend. When your ex talks to that girl, your remembering how much you miss being with someone. Your right you need to get out of that house. Why don't you ask your boyfriend if you can move in with him?
your normal your just used to being the one to get attention from him and now your seeing him give it to another.don't worry think of why your divorced and how happy your new man makes ya feel.and laugh because you kow what's in store for the other bitc..
You are still grieving from when you lost him. You need to move out at all costs, even if it does not work financially. stay with a friend, get room+board, go to a women's refuge. If you feel like behaving this way it's time to go before you act on your feelings.
You suffer from a clearly normal emotional feeling
Just because of your history with him you still have feelings for him. But you have too learn how too let him go and not care any more just think he is dead to you now and move on to BIGGER and Better things. :-) Wow, you are one jealous girl. But at least you realize the problem is with you and not your ex (which is more than I can say for some other people I know).
You're going to have to suck it up and let it go.
hey hun..it can be tuff not seeing your new love every day but time will help..i thank another thing that would help is to find a female room mate if possable. i wish you luck..love daisy Actually, if you truly did not want him anymore you would have found other living arrangements (not matter what your financial status). Be honest with yourself.
In the meantime, seek professional help. You are having homocidial ideation. That's not healthy not matter how you look at it.
This is an easy one. You are extremely immature. You're like a child who wants every body's attention. First of all, you need to be living on your own. You need to get help to get a place if you cannot afford to move out. You are too immature to be going from one man's house to another man's house. Why don't you become independent. You can join the service or the foreign service, if you need somebody to provide room and board. honey u need time..
moving on with someone is a big decision..think about it..is what u doing right?? what if later u realise that u cannot live without ur ex husband?? may b he'll realise.
or may b..u will come to know your new bf better.
all i m saying is..give yourself time!
There are several things wrong with you.
#1 Your self esteem is so low right now, that you could do harm to yourself let alone your ex. You need to be on anti depressants.
#2. You are currently living with your ex-husband and his mother? Ohh my, you screwed up and married a looser who could not afford his own place, let alone a place for you and him to live (happily ever after).
#3 You need to find a new room mate. Try looking in the newspaper and go interview several people. There are always people who were jointly in leases with other people and one of them got married or lost thier job or moved out of town for work and they need a room mate as bad as you.
#4 If you do not make enough money at your current job, what do you like to do? What do you know how to do well? If you like to do a job, you'll do it better than most. So find something you like to do, and figure out how to get paid for it. You'll earn more in a career that you enjoy, as you do it better because you are passionate about your work. You need to make more money to be able to support yourself and not have to be dependent on LOOSERS like your ex.
#5 Don't sit around waiting on some guy to ask you to move in. What happens when things don't work out between you and him? Now where will you go? Back to your ex? NOT! Get off your ***, and get focused on YOUR LIFE! It is just that, YOUR LIFE and not anyone elses. Stop living for other people. You only get one shot at the life you have. You better make it the best it can be! Get Motivated, get off this site and start looking for either work, or a room mate online.
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