I have a boyfriend, but part of my heart is with another.?
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Temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand. It's okay to have a little crush on this "other guy" for now, but just weigh what you and your boyfriend have and what you and this "other guy" have. It sounds like you and your boyfriend are strong, moving past a problem like cheating, but obviously, you like your boyfriend MORE than this other guy. That's why you're with him.YOu LOVE him, right? If it is as you say, then you definitely don't want to give that up. You tried the other guy 4 months into your relationship with your boyfriend, and you didn't decide to run off with him, but you stayed with your boyfriend instead, meaning that you want your relationship to work out with him, and he seems like he is prepared to stick it out with you as well. If you truly love him, then you won't leave him for this other guy, even if it may seem more exciting or if you still have left over feelings for him. The goal is to leave feelings from the past, in the past. Since you have a commitment with your boyfriend now and you love him more than anything, the other guy is merely a temptation. Like I said in the beginning, temptation is normal, but don't let it get out of hand. We're all human.we all have hormones, adrenaline, sexual feelings. ;) .Even happily married couples have temptations, but it doesn't mean they drop whoever they're with and move in with the other person. Theres that self control and rationally weighing what you could lose if you go either way. Now ask yourself, is the other guy worth losing your boyfriend over? As time goes on, and you realize how much you have and don't want to lose, the temptation will subside. If however, you realize you don't have much after all (and you don't actually love your boyfriend), then you should look further. Don't make a decision until you are absolutely sure, because you may not be able to turn back.
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well if youre boyfirend could still love you even after knowing u kissed another guy. He is strong. And he isnt dumb he knows that u left some of your heart with him. I say stay with who u love. But know that ur gf kissed someone else and still loving that girl is STRONG!
If you knew that He thinks about another girl, and sometimes He doesn't feel like you are the one He really wants to be with, would you want him to be fake with you? By wanting to be with someone else, even occasionally, you are not being honest be staying with him. Either get over the other guy, or give this guy what he deserves, the chance to be with an honest girl. you need to eliminate all or most of your contact with this other guy, because it will just tempt you. Furthermore, if you truely loved your bf more than anything else, you wouldnt be having temptations like this for the other guy. You might consider asking your bf if you two might take a break from each other for a month or two, to give you time to decide who you like more
Good luck!
your boyfriend must be a strong, amazing guy to forgive you for cheating on him for 1. he must love you. what is so great about this other guy? if you REALLY love your boyfriend stay with him. it's obvious he loves you. you should take this other guy out of the picture completely. he was just a fling and that's prolly how he feels about it too. if you actually don't love your boyfriend don't hurt him by prolonging the breakup. if you guys weren't meant to be, then yes leave him. don't hurt the boyfriend who has been good to you. that's normal, especially when the relationships are very close to each other in ending and beginning.
Fortunatley,I went through a simualar situation and the way that i handled it was that after i told my boyfriend.We all moved on.I broke it off with the other guy because i said to myself,why would i mess up something good for something im not sure i could last with any.
You seem like a very intelligent women. May be you need to end the relationship and just see if you find yourself missing him. You are following what your heart is telling you right know and that's what good people do. Do not let anybody on this web site or else where judge you. What I'm saying is if you take a step back by breaking up. This might clear your head to listen to your heart. You might want to talk to your boyfriend and tell him you need some time to your self. If he loves you,he will wait for you. Its your life and you are only here once so keep listening to your heart and enjoy life
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