Wha to do when you dont feel like a man?

Question:

I seem to never feel like a man. i amways feel pissed or depressed but never like a man. in my 20 years of like i have yet to get a girl friend, i am so depressed my colege grades are quickly droping and I have no job on account people in this small town will not hire college students for so odd reasion. good thing though id my friend is trying all he can to force his boss to get me a job.

i also live with my father and am treated like a 2nd class citzen and so i stay in my room till i go to class, work out, or have an interview.

i just feel like sh!t.

i am trying the stock marjet sience a friend tought me wht to look for and have made some money so i am trying to get out on my own but its just so demoralizing be here.

what can i do to feel better? dont tell me to get a girl friend because at 20 years of age i know i will never have one, thought i would rather have a girl friend than all the money in the world.

Answers:
Don't feel bad. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend, although guys have complimented me on my looks. The point is some people date earlier and have families earlier then others. My grandpa was 40 when he got married and started having kids.

I also stay in a small town with my dad who is currently out of town visiting my mom. What you want to do is to build up your confidence somehow. Take up a hobby such as drawing, or learn how to make a violin or a nice peice of furniture. These things can really impress people and make you feel better. You can also sell what you make if people are ever interested.

As for your grades. As long as you're in your room you might as well study. Good luck and keep faith in whatever you do.

Wha to do when you dont feel like a man?

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