I feel very lonely?

Question:

I am so lonely and bored. I have no school, no job, thus no friends.
I have not recieve any emails or phone calls for days.
It's like everyone has forgot my existentce. I really hope someone can pay some attention to me.

I went to forums, to talk, to hope to get people attendtion. I got some reply, but very short. I did email a girl (know her thru the forum), we email each other for a while. But now I have not got any email. I feel so lonely and bored again. I know I am depending on the internet to get attention, it's not real, not stable.

Now I am depress again, because I feel no one give me any attention.

Please don't give me answers like: 'go see counsellor', 'doctor', ' go volunteer'. I am doing all these already.
I did try to join some hobby class, but it didn't work out.

I don't know how to make friends. I am not greedy. I just wish I can have some friends I can hang out with.
I am constantly checking cell phone and email, but no one contact me.

Answers:
Sometimes I feel the same (and I DO have a job!)

What are some of your interests?? You might consider joining a group on Yahoo with people interested in something you are and making some online friends through that.....Make a MySpace account and seek out similiar people or people near you? Liek you said though, the only problem with email/the internet is that even though its contact it's still easy for poeple to get sidetracked....

Why don't you have a job? What would you liek to do? Perhaps you should begin focusing on getting a job that you'd ENJOY or going to school for the same....working with people/going to school with poeple normally provides LOTS of possible friends!! This would also help take up some of your time so that maybe you can be free when your friends are.

I myself go to church, so that is where I've got most of my friends. Perhaps this could be a possibility?

If you're an introverted person (like me, i only talk a lot on the internet! lol) it's really easy for others to overlook you and go on with their business. Try to start conversations with poeple...don't stress if they rebuff you or make you feel dumb...every conversation is a learning experience!

If you have friends, and they aren't calling you....try calling them?? Don't bug them out of their minds, but maybe they think you're as busy as they are so they just don't think to call.....

I hope this all works out for you....good for you to ask and get advice! If nothing else, you can email me through YA!

Good luck.....

jeez. that is sad.

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