I might kill myself over a guy?

Question:

I love him so much that it hurts, but I can't have him because of our faith (apostolic christian)...we're not supposed to date, we just marry when we feel it is God's will for us to marry someone He leads us to. Anyway, I live next door to him, I see him at church and church social events, and my heart breaks every time I see him. It's been 9 months, and I can't get over him. I might as well kill myself.

Answers:
hmmmmm... tough one please don't kill yourself over him. Maybe God wants you to be together and it's a test if you can resist until marriage, if he feels the same way you do then why don't you just get married, i'm sorry if i sound foward but i'm not really sure how else your religion works. But honestly if he feels the same way don't you think that maybe you were meant to be together and God wants you to be together. I really wish you the best of luck and i hope it works out for you and i hope you are very happy!! whatever happens, happens and i think that you two were meant for eachother. : ) : ) : )

You will get over him eventually... or change your religion!

Never consider suicide as an option- it will destroy your friends and family.. Plus christians usually believe that if you commit suicide that you don't go to the good place.. Maybe he feels the same way? You could always sneak around for a while and see how it goes :)

First of all, NOBODY is worth killing yourself over! secondly, people who use religion as a barrier to any relationship are just setting themselves up for a non loving relationship..Dont let religion set you up with someone you dont care for, if you feel strongly for him, then you should go for it and let him know how you feel

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