Why am I such a wimp at speaking up?

Question:

As I posted my last question, I realize I'm more concerned about how I come across and not wanting to complain, than the actual problem. Why am I so concerned with not "rocking the boat" when I'm on the recieving end of bad service or treatment? Why have I kept this problem to myself for 2 months instead of nipping in the bud at the beginning?(Refer to last post for details) What mental condition is this? I'll be 28 in 2 weeks, I'm not shy, and I take care of myself and my son. Soo why can't I do something as simple as speak up for myself?

Answers:
You simply don't trust yourself.

You don't believe you could be right,

therefore you don't know how to speak up

when speaking up do it with humility, genuine concern and with clarity. Above all believe in yourself. If you don't then don't speak up.

Most of the time when a person does not speak up it is because they don't know what is right and what is wrong. to put is very simply they need more education.

you probably need to go back to some form of school.

Other Answers:
i have the same problem except lot younger

MIGHT BE UR AFRAID OF PEOPLE,OR ELESE U R AFRAID OF SPEAKING SOME THING WRONG ON WHICH PEOPLE MIGHT LAUGH OR SCOREE AT U.
ALL I WANT TO SAY IS SPEAK UP BECAUSE SPEAKING IS UER BIRTH RIGHT. THINK ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO R REALLY MUTE AND CANT SPEAK BUT THEY TRY TO EXPRESS BY HAND OR SOME THING ELSE SO PLEASE KEEP SPEAKING FOR UER RIGHT OR ELSE U WILLL ALWAYS FEEL SORRY FOR THE THING U HAVE NOT SPOKEN FOR.

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