How can I stop wishing my life away?
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start with doin small things and making little changes and then move onto bigger challanges its worked for me. i was once like u say u r now.
I wish i knew
replace "wishing" with "pissing" as you meant to write, and your answer is obvious:
you won't be able to. send me all your money.
Easy think about something else. Once in while everyone do it. Now think about computer and get online speak to your friends and if you dont have friend then make some.
by doing something everday that makes you feel good about yourself.
even if its just taking a walk in the morning after breakfast!
and do something once a month you'd never usually do, something big like a bungee jump, or go karting!
You can stop thinking that way first by expecting less, be happy amidst troubled life and faith in your God. Seems hard to do, but take a little step forward, and you'll never know how far you've gone in your journey through life.
Start by taking up a hobby or get a job do something useful for once instead of sitting on your backside all day
just tell your self to stop and then look at what you have and where you have been and what you have been doing. slow down deep breaths and possibly some meditation preferably christian meditation.good luck
Maybe enjoy some of the things you have? Make a list of all the things you already have that make you happy and appreciate having them for a bit.
impart selfless service to the needy ones,be positive and enjoy every moment positively,if possible meditate for at least one hour per day,divert ur attention inwardly also,then feel the difference,ur life will change very soon.
Try to be in the moment. Our wishes seem to be about our escaping our past and by acting on or fixing your needs rather than just wishing you are taking charge instead of hoping that some outside force will make your wishes come true. If it helps try and remember that life is over REALLY quick and that regret or kissing the pasts' butt just makes us all victims. Each morning is truly a fresh start so start slowly and fix one tiny thing per day. After a month you'll see a huge difference.
i was like u feel now a few monthes ago i was in a unstable violent relationship i had no job and suffering from agrophobia i felt like i was just waiting to die half the time and it is a horrible feeling but then i started to realise it was only me who was gonna be able to pull myself out of this so i started just going out just for about half hour a day to start with even it being just going to the shop and then i started building it up to a hour and soon then i enroled into lil groups just doing cookin but it was meeting other people and realising there was more to life than what i wads doing
by thinking positive and tray to change your life around ,look at waht make unhappy to wish that and do something about
make a new life with new people in it make your self busy. good luck!
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Have you tried a short course of psychotherapy? It may help to uncover a small incident you have forgotten which is getting in the way of what you want to do. Then you may know instinctively what goals you want to pursue and lead a more purposeful life. Please ignore the insulting answers on this page. I find it very annoying when people genuinely ask for help and they get insults. After all, to ask the question is the first step to feeling better, half the battle won! Good luck!
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Try to focus on each day at a time, even if every day is the same. We all have lessons to learn in this life, look at the present situation and think about what you can learn from it.
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You can stop wishing you life away by learning to appreciate life in the moment. Learning how to be mindful has made me happy and appreciate the small things in life. If you are always looking for to the future as a source of happiness you can never enjoy the present.
You also need to be positive and think deeply aboutthe things you do that give you happiness at that time (in the present) and think " I am really enjoying this.(wahatever you are doing)"
I recommend books by Thich Nhat Hanh as a reference.
Good luck
stop lighting candles and blowing them out think of another wish
I will wish for you
Then you can carry on with you life
while I do the wishing
wish for a life, but don't tell anyone, 'cause then it won't come true!
Wishes are necessary for life.if you have no wish you have no life.But wishes should match your ability and capacity.Start with small wishes and do efforts to achieve them.You will gradually you will get encouragement and aspire for bigger wishes.Be positive.If Henry Ford could build a business empire with wish alone ,you can do better.Have confidence and try.The world is yours.Good luck!
why should you good grief if we didn't wish
life would be unbearable just keep it realistic.
it's no good depressing yourself with things you cant achieve
I do this alot when i feel i want time to go quick i set my self tasks
If you have nothing to do volinteer yourself to colleeges etc
Your not the only one
Wait until we are older then it will stop
he he
The present is a "Gift" , treasure it as in one seconds time it will be gone for good.
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