am i destined to never get a girlfriend?

Question:

i have tried many different ways to try and find a gf, joined clubs, socialised, go out, but have none who become interested anymore than friends. i am reasonably ugly, and my confidence seems to get lower as each day goes by. Im also becomin a lot more depressed, and as a result my relationships with family and friends are deteriorating, along with occassional thoughts of suicide (these are generally extinguished by thinkin of mymother at my funeral however). i feel virtually worthless, and just cant stop thinking this way. it is driving me mad, and i just wonder if anyone has tips on trying to feel better about yourself? i dont see how i will ever get a girlfriend that i am actually attracted to, as most girls do not even give me the time of day. it seems most girls that are friends are actually my mates gf's, and i feel its more a comfort thing than them actually liking me. just dont know what to do

Answers:
Quit trying to find someone here and now, that is why you are feeling dissapointed, live your life day to day and eventually, someone will come along when you least expect it..Try going on a dating site, you never know. Good luck

try talking to a cousolor after I got out of my realationship with my ex he was severly abusive and possessive he had me feeling all the ways you are I talked to a cousoler and it has helped. AND no matter what anyone says everyone is good looking in their own way people need to quit looking at looks and go after personality and if you ever need to talk message me ok.

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