Am i imagining things? or life is picking on me?
Question:
Anyhow, i have tried making friends and have been doing so. At uni today i tried talking to the "group" of people saying hi and commenting and asking questions, but i was ignored, interuprted and overpowered by a louder person, even tho they did hear me.
Im in the UK and i have an american accent and im from Libya (which is a mixed race of Arabs and Italians). I was thinking it might be because of my accent? because it cant be race , there are mixed races in my class that all talk.
This is just 1 factor thats affecting me so bad i cry every few hours about it. I remember back in the days when i was 8 or 9 i was the funniest guy in my class, now im just a loser at 21.
Today i took Vodka even tho im not allowed in my religion, but i had no way to stop this feeling. I dont get it, i tried all ways to make friends..but no
Answers:
The problem is not your accent, or where you are from.
I used to feel the same way, and have the same problem. I discovered over time that it was my own negative expectations that found its way into my behaviour (i did not see it), and my lack of social skills that caused the problems. I would suggest that you seek counseling to learn what it is in your own behaviour that might cause others not to respond to you positively. People who are super sensitive are particularly likely to feel rejection where there is none. A counselor can also help you develop good social skills. You will never regret doing this.
I wish you well, email me at pynkgold@aim.com if you want to talk more on this.
Clearly you're imagining things. I strongly suggest you watch fight club, and start making some life changing decisions. That and watch this: http://youtube.com/watch?v=csiAsbPxmmY You'll be surprised how watching something like that can change everything, if you let it
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