I may have asked something like this before, but I am looking for more input.?
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Ask yourself: What am I looking for? What do I want to do? What will make me happy? What has made me happy in the past? What do I enjoy? I don't believe we are here for any particular purpose, other then to live and help others and to enjoy life, fill your lungs with fresh clean air and get out into the sunlight, and see, I mean really see, the (good) things life has to offer you! Look at a tree, see what it has to offer the world, watch ripples move on a pond, see the love ducks have for each other as they group together in the water, look at the sky, see the beautiful colors of the sunset, fall face down in the grass and see, smell and feel the grass, look at an ant colony, feel the different texture of colored leaves, taste a raindrop! This is what life has to offer, pretend you only have 3 days left to live and try to savor all there is to savor, this is your world dammit, and you don't want to leave it!!
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You go out and find a purpose for your life. Volunteer, Go back to school, go out and make new friends.
find a purpose, no matter how small or insignificant it seems right know every move you make changes everything Go to the doctor. I hope you feel better soon.
Everyone has a purpose in life. You might just think that you don't but you do. There are a lot of people who care about you and would be hurt if you weren't around. Don't give up hope it get's better.
i dunno..go to church or somtin.dont commit suicide cuz u wont go to heaven. call the suicide hotline
basically you have 2 options. talk to someone and try and get through the low point or end your life. I wouldn't recommend the latter because i am sure there are people that would miss you. find those people and talk to them. you will feel better.
Also try something like volunteer at a hospital or something where there are people less fortunate than you. it helps to know you are not so bad.
First, realize that you ain't alone: lots of people have this kind of thought.
For myself, it helps me to think of my son.
Sometimes, it helps to just make myself get the heck outside, just throw on whatever and go out the door - even a few steps can change my mood.
For the longer term, there are a couple of things that help me, maybe they will help you:
1. take a course, OR
2. volunteer to help people (through a church or charity like Goodwill or Salvation Army)
The worst thing is to be alone with your painfull thoughts.
So do some thing, any thing - go to the store for milk, even.
HTH
You choose again, you choose a context bigger than you to live into, so you live a contextually filled life rather than a content filled life. Something that will go on to survive you after you die. Who was it who said "if i had 80 lifetimes i could never learn all there was to learn" or " I thought i was poor when i had no shoes, until i saw a man with no feet" life doesnt look a particular way because we are "experiential" beings,we think if it looks that way, our way, a particular way it will work out and it doesnt, why? because at school they teach us when we "HAVE" it then we can "BE" it then we can "DO" it, this is a fundemental lie from cultural myth! and also the reason 85% of the population dies financially and spiritually broke. So this is how it works I'ts BE-DO - HAVE not HAVE - BE - DO >>> BE thirsty DO what 's appropriate (get a drink) then you can HAVE. it because you cant "have" it before you "be" it or "do" it. so give up the attachment to having a purpose,you choose your purpose, and it will come from all the object lessons you've had in life up till now, so now look for where you can apply all those qualities that you do want that are important to you and learn to specialise. so who are you BEING?and who do you want to BE in the future? the having comes anyway as a validation of your contribution and doersnt look a particular way, unless of course your motivated from that fear of survival attachment to form i.e MONEY rather than being contextual. So your context creates the experience that motivates you, the experience creates the FORM (which doesn't look a particular way) and the form is a validation of your contribution, be it money, satisfaction,contentment and the last two and to evolve and pass our knowledge and wisdom onto others to serve them to grow is the most we can ever really achieve anyway and all the rest is BS.
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